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significant other pregnant at 18

my boyfriend (ftm 18) and me (male 19) thinks he’s pregnant. idk what to do. if it turns out he’s pregnant i don’t know what to do at all. ive never wanted kids, but i don’t want to leave him. he’s hurting and his ex was extremely abusive ((the dad of the child if he turns out to be pregnant)). a child interferes with so much and i struggle so much mentally i can barley keep up with my own life. we’ve known each other since we were 14-15 and dated for about a year back then. we have been on and off heavily in communication over the years. then finally we get back together and i had such high hopes. im just so scared, this isn’t wanted i wanted or envisioned for my life personally, but at the same time it isn’t about me at all. i’ve always loved him so much and i just wanna be there for him. none of its processing atm idk how to feel. it’s been so many years of an attachment to him i want to be there for him always. if it turns out to be true ill never be able to be there in the way he needs and truly deserves

this is all over the place im so sorry. i’m just so lost

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u/Neat_Opportunity_893 — 2 months ago

What to do with collectables ?

hello ! not sure if this is a question that's been asked a lot in the sims community, but i was jw what you guys do with items such as frogs, figurines, crystals, fossils, etc. i've been recently getting back into the game and want to try to actually collect all the items instead of ignoring them within the game. mostly i just dont find them very appealing decor wise, but then again it fills up my Sims inventory so much idk what to do with them. i don't want to sell them either but i need them gone ! the invetory space is so clogged it's become a hassle to find basic things my sims randomly stored away. most posts i found about this were from 6+ years ago, so maybe there's newer things i could do so they could be put to good use (??)

edit: posting this was the first time i found this subreddit and everyone is so kind here. thank you to anyone who replied and gave me their own gameplay advice. all of it is very much appreciated ! i love to see all the different ways people play the sims

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u/Neat_Opportunity_893 — 3 months ago