significant other pregnant at 18
my boyfriend (ftm 18) and me (male 19) thinks he’s pregnant. idk what to do. if it turns out he’s pregnant i don’t know what to do at all. ive never wanted kids, but i don’t want to leave him. he’s hurting and his ex was extremely abusive ((the dad of the child if he turns out to be pregnant)). a child interferes with so much and i struggle so much mentally i can barley keep up with my own life. we’ve known each other since we were 14-15 and dated for about a year back then. we have been on and off heavily in communication over the years. then finally we get back together and i had such high hopes. im just so scared, this isn’t wanted i wanted or envisioned for my life personally, but at the same time it isn’t about me at all. i’ve always loved him so much and i just wanna be there for him. none of its processing atm idk how to feel. it’s been so many years of an attachment to him i want to be there for him always. if it turns out to be true ill never be able to be there in the way he needs and truly deserves
this is all over the place im so sorry. i’m just so lost