u/Necessary-Sir-5364

My biggest expense is food. I have to eat to survive but now that I’m an adult my parents almost completely stopped feeding me, they don’t even leave me portions of food from the dinners they make anymore so I find myself just going out to eat to survive. I just did the math and I need 4k just for a vehicle and my goal is to have it within 4 months and that means 500 a check twice a month and I’m just barely making over 500 a check I am struggling so hard I got this job because the manager made it sound like I’d be making 15-17 every night with tips, that’s why I’d be being paid 5.15 an hour but that’s just simply not true every night I’m making minimum wage or just slightly above. I need a better job but every job “available” is just fast food jobs or other minimum wage jobs that don’t want to start full time.

For context (this might be TMI) but I for whatever reason have not been able to pee willingly on my own for id say the last year. I would maybe call this pee shyness but it's way worse than that l've always been a shy pee person but this, I just genuinely cannot get an ounce of pee out without spasming my lower stomach enough to get the feeling of needing to go. Last year I had to go to the hospital and have a catheter physically remove the urine from me because I hadn't peed in well over 36 hours despite my bladder almost about to pop.
But anyways I start probation in about 3 days and just know l'm not gonna be able to pee in front of them if I could pee at all is there anyway I could go to the doctor or something to tell them I can't take urine tests. Or should I talk to my lawyer about it? I wanna be compliant on probation but I JUST CANT PEE THIS IS RUINING MY LIFE!!

EDIT: so I talked to my lawyer and he said to provide a note from my doctor and they’ll “likely” be able to accommodate me. I’m just worried I won’t be accommodated for I guess now.

I really messed up and really just let myself go over the weekend I really regret all of it I’m just thinking about everything I could lose if I popped on a test, itll be 144 hours before the test should I be okay? I’ve read it takes anywhere from 3-7 days from non frequent users (I genuinely haven’t touched the stuff in a year) but I just don’t have any idea