Are we ENFPs doomed to deal with ab*se, trauma and invalidation?
Hi I’m Female(ENFP)25
And I feel very lonely in this topic, I’ve talked about this to my closest people and I feel like no one really understands.
I’m often called fun, interesting, talented, smart and special at first, but passing the time I always end up being mistreated or judged.
I always try to mask a bit of my personality because every time I felt safe to be myself I was hurt, played or even ab*sed.
I’ve developed this feeling that I’ll always be judged for who I am, either being too much but not enough at the same time… I can be seen as “amazing” but not like a individual with feelings… am I some kind of professional clown made to entertain and be left out or judged when it starts getting “too much”.
Honestly I’m dating a INFP for 7 months and I’m just now kinda hopeful I found someone as “wierd” as me…
I really want to meet someone who really understands this.
Do you relate to this?
What’s your experience with trauma?