u/NerveCommercial7607

I’m genuinely confused by dating at this point. We had plans, I made my availability clear, and somehow the entire date was just… forgotten. We settled with 3pm today and now it’s 6:20PM.. he was apparently ready in the morning which is BS as he has football. A grown 35 year old man can not even communicate.

I’m not angry and I’m certainly not chasing anyone to remember plans they made with me, but is this seriously where dating is at now?

31F — not getting many likes and recently got told my profile comes across quite mellow/laid-back. Curious if that’s actually the impression it gives or if there’s anything I should change. Honest feedback welcome!

I took a break from the apps but I’m giving it another go.

Let me know honestly if there’s anything I should add or take out. Do the photos feel a bit plain?

‼️The picture with the kid is my niece and I’ve used the prompt to let the guys know. ‼️

Thanks 🙂

Tell me who I look like so I can decide if I’m flattered or offended 😂

We hit it off, so a few days ago we arranged to meet for coffee at 11am this Saturday. He lives ten minutes away, and I made it clear I was flexible. I told him to say if the morning didn’t suit and we could do later.

He didn’t message until 10:42am on Saturday, 18 minutes before we were due to meet. And then… he said that. He didn’t even message me back. It’s now been over 24 hours of silence. He’s in finance and works ridiculous hours but damnit. Just text me?

I’m done. I don’t see the point in investing energy where basic courtesy and communication are absent.