Terrified my face looks way too feminine, started going to the gym multiple times a week, focusing on building my neck shoulders and arms but no progress yet since it’s only been a short time. Any tips on how to look more masculine? Cutting my hair shorter in the back tends to make me look like a lesbian so I’m not sure what haircut to get. Will delete eventually since I hate my face being online.
I know it’s mostly online but everytime I see “transmascs” trender ftms or “tboys” etc.. they always hate anything to do with masculinity. Not to get into gender stereotypes and what not but their hobbies are usually female dominated, they speak in a way that is associated with women, they dress androgynously at most but will wear pushup bras and makeup, and their short haircut is usually a wolf cut. Now I’m not targeting feminine trans men or transgender men who have feminine hobbies, for example I used to do ballet at competition level (was allowed to use male uniform) but stopped eventually because of puberty and bad dysphoria, was still able to continue with other sports at least. But these people don’t seem to have any masculine aligned thoughts or personalities. They also HATE men, hate anything to do with them and will go out of their way to specify CIS men. They also avoid the gym like the plague but claim they want a masculine figure and will get mad when someone recommends that as a passing tip. They genuinely just seem to be cis women who want to be special and different. I genuinely don’t understand it at all, is there an actual reason for why they do this?