r/Transmedical

I see so many reels of tucutes saying things like,”I love my boypussy!” Or “I use old spice deodorant now”. Or they talk about how they first associated themselves with being male through yaoi.

Other than fetishes & little aesthetic obsessions over “boyhood”, what are things in life you attribute to your masculinity &/or manhood?

This time its actually harmful and clearly the result of the internet. Harmful to both real trans people and vulnerable confused dysphorics who will wanna die when theyre stuck looking like a man or a woman

I'm not sure if my take on this is correct, but it's something I noticed with many people that say they're "under the non-binary umbrella". These people genuinely confuse feeling masculine with "feeling like a guy" and vice versa. There are cis guys that feel feminine and don't act nor "feel" like the typical cis man. Instead of thinking that this is okay and you can be/feel feminine as a guy, they come to the conclusion that "they're not 100% cis" and that they must be a demiguy/non-binary/genderfluid or whatever bullshit gender that was made up. The same thing for cis girls that are tomboys, that fall down the wrong internet rabbit hole and suddenly identify as a "genderqueer masc enby", without understanding that it's actually completely fine if you're a girl/woman who's masculine.

And I'm actually someone who likes the societal idea of men being masculine and women being feminine, as it makes it easier to pass and I just like that societal norm and I will conform, because I like being seen as just a normal guy. But I don't have a problem with people being masculine/feminine, no matter their sex. But it's important for me that these people don't get confused by some trans activist and gender fanatics and end up going down the medical transition route and regretting it, becoming detrans and start hating on all transsexuals. Or they never transition medically because of a lack of dysphoria, but start preaching gender identity and that you can identify as everything, which also hurts actual trans people and cis people as well, because even more of them then get confused. The mistake in thinking that the title implies harms both cis people and trans people and we should stop it.

Hi there, I have this christian/conservative family “issue”.
I’m 18 years old, 5 months on T and I’m supposed to be meeting my grandma after 6 months or so. Of course, the testosterone did A LOT for me in these 5 months (voice majorly dropped, facial hair, +10kg…) and I’m very very stressed about this interraction.
My grandma is about 78 years old and she is very very christian…
I’m asking for tips on how to go about this, I figured it’s best if I tell her myself rather than someone who knows shit about this topic.

hello brothers just had a quick question/discussion i wanted to talk about , a friend of mine who is a woman called me a bitch twice , the first time they did i called them one back then they stated you know how i feel about that word. ( this is fine cause that word is met with disrespect most of the time ) so i then stated you know how i feel about that word as well.

couple conversations later i get called bitch again said in all caps now “ YOU BITCH “ i then reply and say how if i call you one back they proceed to say “ You don’t have tits anymore you can’t be calling girls bitches 🤷🏼‍♀️ Thems the rules Or you can say whatever you want just don’t call me one” this rubbed me off extremely weirdly the fact i hate the word tits especially as a trans man just reminds me of my identity regardless i find this hypocritical , i just wanna know if im overreacting or being over dramatic?

if i need to provide more context i can if this is confusing i apologize and yes this person uses they and them pronouns but still refers to themselves as a girl

I use regular kinesiology tape and coconut oil. Removal takes me at least an hour and leaves glue residue on my skin. Is there a quicker way to do this?

So I'm 19(transexual man) and I've known this friend for about 3 years now. A few months ago they came out as mtf to me, and I was supportive because initially they said their goals were to be a fully passing woman, and when I asked her questions seemingly showed signs of dysphoria at the time I asked. So I tried to give the best advice I could.

Well recently in the last month or so, she has been doing these weird behaviors that are making me take her much less seriously. For example, referring to her genitals as "girlcock" or a "bussy", talks about how she can't wait for estrogen to give her breasts and how we can all grab them if we wanted to, talking about estrogen before she's even passing or attempting to pass, she mostly looks GNC or a femboy rn to other people and such, and on top of that I corrected her(?) own boyfriend who misgendered her and she told me it was fine he calls her a he/man because she isn't fully sure she's trans. Which upset me deeply even more because it feels like she's putting on some kind of weird persona or like this is a costume to her. Like she thinks this is some kind of choice.

I'm just so unsure what to do or say, I don't think this is okay behavior and I've spoken up about my transmed views to them before, and they mostly told me the same tucute B.S you hear online. How saying that "xenogenders and tucutes are making the community look bad and us saying that actually is basically the same hatred cis people give us", which to me is such bullcrap. Because I've never had issues with cis people about me being trans because I didn't make an effort to tell everyone I was trans or something. So I didn't bother arguing with them more about it because they both(her and her bf, who is my other friend) have such harsh tucute views.

On top of all of this her bf recently came out to me as "non-binary" because when he's done hitting the gym, his goals are to be skinny and not fat??? Yup. That's his whole reason. I'm so done. Idek what to say.

Sorry if this post is kinda rambling, I honestly had nowhere else to put this and wanted opinions from like-minded individuals.

ever since i made another account on tiktok to actually express some of my opinions, i have gotten multiple people telling me to ‘slice my wrists’ or genuinely just kill myself. im 15, the last person to tell me im a terrible person was 19, an adult. most people messaging me literally claim to be trans, theyre just tucutes.

some comments are just tucutes telling me how the cis people will still never like me and that im bringing the community down, while others are just full of hatred. they always act the victim until they see someone who has different views than them, then they just go off.

even when people are there to back up what i say, like state their experience of actually being taken seriously in public because they pass, they still choose to argue and say were the dumbest people on earth.

im tired of this. people dont even notice im trans in public, its only transphobes and tucutes online who have something to say.

this post was a vent but also just to bring awareness to this whole thing. im literally seeing more tucutes go off on transmeds rather than actual transphobes. i have many moots on tiktok as well, also teenage transmeds, who have had experiences like me. there are literally adults telling teenagers to die and everyone just acts like everything is fine because ’were the bad ones’.