u/Actual-Accident2606

ever since i made another account on tiktok to actually express some of my opinions, i have gotten multiple people telling me to ‘slice my wrists’ or genuinely just kill myself. im 15, the last person to tell me im a terrible person was 19, an adult. most people messaging me literally claim to be trans, theyre just tucutes.

some comments are just tucutes telling me how the cis people will still never like me and that im bringing the community down, while others are just full of hatred. they always act the victim until they see someone who has different views than them, then they just go off.

even when people are there to back up what i say, like state their experience of actually being taken seriously in public because they pass, they still choose to argue and say were the dumbest people on earth.

im tired of this. people dont even notice im trans in public, its only transphobes and tucutes online who have something to say.

this post was a vent but also just to bring awareness to this whole thing. im literally seeing more tucutes go off on transmeds rather than actual transphobes. i have many moots on tiktok as well, also teenage transmeds, who have had experiences like me. there are literally adults telling teenagers to die and everyone just acts like everything is fine because ’were the bad ones’.

im about 15 and 8 months old, im able to get my permit. ive gone through all of drivers ed, i can easily pass the test, i just dont want my deadname on my license. i know, its not a big issue, i can put male on it if i want, i can hide it in my wallet and never look at it, but its just bothering me. my parents keep asking me when im going to get it. i wanna drive but the id thing is bothering me.

also, i would want to switch schools, not for the upcoming school year but the year after. this is because by that time ill be able to drive myself if i get my permit now (virginia makes you keep your permit for 9 months till you get your license) and i would have to drive to that particular school as im not zoned for it, i just wanna go stealth and have a fresh start with people who dont know me.

has anybody else ever thought about this, its been bothering me for awhile, even before i was able to get my permit.

for reference, im almost 16, pre everything

under a lot of posts i see mainly see adults but apparently its common for lots of teenagers to be here. i feel as though there would be a lot of us since many tucutes are teenagers, people our age want to be taken seriously.

im 15 and im gonna put male on my drivers permit when i get it, the problem is that im not out to my family. ive been closeted for 5 years, one year i tried detransitioning but hated it. im pretty sure my immediate family is not transphobic at all. i also want testosterone really badly when i turn 16 and i dont know how to ask for it. can someone give me advice?

Im 15 years old right now and thinking about asking for testosterone in a few months when im 16. i was going to ask trans teens but i thought this was a better spot for it, more older people here with more experience. i know about basically every effect that testosterone does to your body but i was just wondering if anyones hands grew afterwards and if their feet got into bigger shoe sizes. i read before that your hands are like bones or something so they cant grow, which is sad because my hands are pretty small haha. i was mostly just wondering about the feet, like what shoe size you were before vs now.

writing feet this much feels odd

im sure weve all seen the most recent post from the victim, but it seems like its taken over this whole fandom. you all need to understand that the red tie guy singing about his amp being too high is not the same guy we know today. this fandom did this 3 years ago and then he got the fame back, just accept hes never going to get help. can we just go back to posting about random concert videos or making art of the band, i wanna school through this subreddit and see anything but “joe hawley is a perv and we need to stop interacting with him”.

plus, you guys know you can all still listen to tally hall, right? it doesnt matter that one member is a bad person, practically everyone is a bad person now. joe doesnt do much with tally hall anymore anyways, he just mentions the band a few times while the rest of the members go do some concerts without him. i dont even think he makes much money off that band anymore anyways (correct me if im wrong, i heard that somewhere). if the band makes you happy, listen to them, if you feel uncomfortable, dont. dont let other people influence your actions.

im not trying to be rude, i dont want to start an argument. im just tired of seeing all the drama.

EDIT: stop talking about joe AS MUCH. haha sorry i saw the comments, realized i didnt actually write what i really wanted.

i know hes a terrible person, ive known that for awhile. you people sold your plushies in 2023 after the past allegations and im wondering if youll do it again. i have all the tallytooz (i liked that name haha) except for the joe plushie. just wondering if anyone is going to put a listing anywhere.

how are your guys relationship with your family, specifically the extended part?

im a trans guy and i really wanna come out soon after hiding it for literally 5 years. i feel like my immediate family will be ok with it, just not much the extended part. im most worried about a bunch of the older people. i pass a lot of the time, just have more of a girls face and butt lol.

how has everyones experience been? im just worried. if it was bad, do you just not visit any more or what happens?

today the headliners were posted and theres no sign of any form of tally hall anywhere. im slightly bummed, i mean whenever andrew really performs anywhere theres a pretty big crowd, like last year. i knew people were thinking we would have andrew horowitz and friends back this year but i guess not, the closest we have is shame maux but he is his own artist himself.