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right now i’m more mad about this because i just saw a teenage girl post herself on an ftm subreddit saying “i went to the men’s bathroom and a man told me it’s the men’s! it made me so dysphoric!”. yes, cause using the men’s room looking like a fucking girl is safe and okay! alright.
besides this, why are so many trenders female rather than male? i have so much more respect for trans women because they never pull shit like this??? trans women never try to be she/her gay men, but “trans men” constantly want to be lesbians. it’s so disturbing. it genuinely makes the community look like such a joke.
not to mention, the amount of “trans men” who love talking about being AFAB (mainly because they just love being women, but also) to attempt to silence trans women? it’s so insane. i hate hefabs so much. these people demand attention, they post themselves in women’s clothing, with no haircuts, no hrt anytime soon, expecting to be called MEN. it is fucking disgusting, a horrible caricature of what transsexual males are.
i am sixteen years old, i know several girls from my old highschool who were “trans”. what they are, though, are obviously girls. never did they decide to try to dress masculine (or even androgynous), one of them would come in wearing skirts, makeup, long dyed hair, piercings, revealing cleavage, etc. and guess what? i was expected to call her a man. i checked her tiktok recently and there are videos of her hanging out with the other trenders. WEARING BIKINIS. you can’t make this shit up. no hrt ever, nope, no binding, no dressing male, nothing. not even a haircut.
i was medically neglected for three years while begging to get on hrt while i was practically raped by puberty, it made me entirely suicidal. now, on testosterone, i am treated as a normal boy. to think about suffering, and how hard my life was every single day, its horrible. i hate it. these people mock me, and others like me, just because they want to feel special. it’s so disturbing

i’m american and not sure how to get it, but i would like some to help with bottom growth.

i’ll delete if i get backlash, but
i hate seeing ugly, non-passing, or early/pre-teen trans people. they make the community look horrible. i feel bad for it, but “trans kids” (likely to detrans, too) are so, so fucking annoying. i understand it’s because they’re young and exploring identity but jesus christ it drives me fucking insane. the pronoun pins, ugly haircuts, hair dye, and clothing makes me want to throw up. it’s the same way i feel about non passing trans people. it’s incredibly cruel but i hate seeing them so, so much. it’s not their fault in some cases, but god i hate it. seeing people refer to them as whatever just because they identify that way is … weird. i’m aware i was once like these people, i was a trans kid who was ugly and annoying, so maybe it’s somewhat of a projection at this point, but at this point in my transition i feel fine to go out in public being seen as cis, and i cringe when i see other “trans” people. i wish the community could be seen as people who were born with a condition, and fixed it. not as ugly retarded women with blue hair and wheelchairs. i know all of this is bad to say, but i don’t know where else to put it. let me know what you think. i realize i should have more compassion for non passing people as well.

id love to get tickets in the chance it’s tony but would also love to know the potential others!

i’m 16 and have been on testosterone for about 7 months. i pass in public now, but i think people think i look like a preteen. i went to get admission for a state park and the woman asked for my age…….. the only two options were adult (over 12) and child (12 & under). like goddamn i thought i atleast looked 15. i don’t get asked for my age by movie theater employees when going to rated r films though, but still am looking for tips to look older

i’m so done with the whole world & internet coddling trenders. these people make no effort to present male, won’t cut their hair, won’t stop wearing makeup, won’t take testosterone (but talk about how they want it, yet would become dysphoric about actual male changes), won’t voice train, don’t have dysphoria, and are literally completely indecipherable from cis girls. i genuinely don’t care. i keep seeing videos of girls posting about being trans he/him transmasc queer :3 cis bf who loves our gay mlm relationship, and i literally will not see the end of it. i am in high school, and last year i knew three of these people. out of pressure / to not be considered“transphobic” (ha ha ha) i referred to them with he/him pronouns, but mainly attempted to just say their names, because it honestly disgusted me. i’m done trying to do that no matter who judges me, because it is incredibly uncomfortable and honestly unfair i have to be grouped in with nasty bitches like that. there’s no way cis people actually think of them as men, in fact i feel bad for the cis “allies” who have to put up with stuff like this and say whatever just to be considered woke. there is a difference between actual trans people and trenders, not knowing the difference is 1000x more transphobic than calling a girl a girl.

i’m looking for haircut recommendations, i don’t wanna show myself for personal reasons but i’d consider my face oval shaped (kinda round) with softer features. i hope i can find some help for this

i’m looking for haircut recommendations, i don’t wanna show myself for personal reasons but i’d consider my face oval shaped (kinda round from testosterone bloating) & my nose is straight and round. i hope i can find some help for this

what’s wrong with the loud majority of “trans men” who are obsessed with being women? i just saw a post on ftm from a “hyperfeminine femboy” (not on testosterone, of course) complaining about their boyfriend calling them a girl… umm, no shit? if you get misgendered 24/7 and present strictly as female but want other people to affirm you as to being called a man and he/him, you’re absolutely delusional. it’s ridiculous how the majority of people in “trans spaces” online just allow themselves to think this bullshit is acceptable and should be treated with care and sensitivity… no. and what’s with this coming from mainly hefabs? i never see trans women do this shit. i can’t put up with the “ftm community”, jesus christ.

i constantly, constantly see posts of (mainly hefabs) talking about how they ‘want to go on testosterone’ but they won’t because they don’t want a deep voice, don’t want acne, or don’t want any actual masculine features. you’re a female who loves being female, great for you! i’d understand it if it was due to medical necessity but it genuinely never is.
“I don’t wanna lose my singing voice!” if your singing voice is more important to you than the crippling dysphoria that actual trans people face, then you don’t need HRT. you’re better off without it and are taking resources from people who need them. you will forever be dysphoric and unsatisfied with the changes of HRT because you’re not trans, you’re a girl who wants to be quirky! great for you. being forced to accept that is enough, but seeing these people actually say they want HRT, or god forbid actually get it, is horrible.

I recently reached 6 months on testosterone and, while I’ve been blessed without too much facial acne, my back acne is absolutely insane. I assume it’s an effect of testosterone as I haven’t changed any sleeping activities, but I’ve never dealt with this before. So any advice would be more than appreciated

I genuinely see this EVERYWHERE. Posts of cis women with long hair and their breasts on display calling themselves boys, if you say anything about it you’re a disgusting bigot, you get downvoted, etc etc. Why is it ‘transphobic’ to not want your community to look like a complete joke? Why are we forced to accept non-binary attention seeking women or else we will be attacked?? I genuinely see SO many posts of girls calling themselves trans males and it is absolutely ridiculous how when you call it out they start attacking you. And, no, I can’t believe that this is just an internet phenomenon either. As an american high schooler, I know atleast three girls who LARP as transgender males, and I have to accept that and call them he/him, otherwise people will get upset with me. Honestly, it makes me incredibly uncomfortable. Genuinely like I’m participating in someone’s weird fetish. As a transsexual, I take HRT and have legally changed my name, but people know I’m trans, generally I pass in public but there are 100% tells, and the fact that I have to be grouped in with girls and woman who will never ever touch testosterone or even cut their hair is incredibly disturbing to me.

what the title says! i’m trying to be happier waiting for results on testosterone (5months in right now), and want some stuff to look forwards to!