u/Severe-Advantage-581

i go to a very, very small high school. i am a transsexual male on testosterone, and the amount of “trans identifying” females there disgusts me. there are about three SENIORS, none medically transitioning despite being adults, all of them show off their tits. one constantly wears crop tops, makeup, has long hair, dyes her hair, and goes into the girls bathroom (despite unisex single stalls being available). it is so demeaning to see these people walk around without being bullied & having people validate them by calling them by he/him when they are most obviously attention seeking girls. most of my minimal friends are also friends with them and it’s just like… do you see me like this? do you think this is what were supposed to look like? it’s disgusting how they’re allowed to make the community look like a bunch of retards because they want trendy ways to label themselves. two of them are literally tall with passing potential yet do nothing (not even cut their hair) to make themselves seem even slightly male. i needed to get this off my chest, because i cannot stand being around people like this, especially in such a small school.

i’ve been on testosterone for almost five months now, bottom growth has of course happened, but i haven’t noticed any erections or anything. libido is higher and stuff but is it like… a feeling? something physically noticeable? cause i haven’t seen anything. very sad

just what the post asks. of course i am aware that it cannot change my bone structure entirely but im wondering, since my face is like shorter and round, can this be helped………….. i also think bloating or whatever that is is making my face appear younger / more feminine so i dont know.

im about four and a half months in on testosterone and just wondering if i should try losing weight then gaining it back, or just let myself do nothing and wait for it to work on its own. is it too early??

im 16 and got tickets for a r rated film saturday. im scared as fuck they won’t let me in cause i’ve never been to this theater alone. is there anything i could say to convince them to let me in if they don’t want to??

i am of course aware i can get any deodorant but the one i have now is NOT 🙅‍♂️ doing the job with how much i stink from testosterone plus the hot weather. i do not want to smell horrible and i hate being so sweaty! thanks for any advice on this because i know many have had to keep it under control for a much longer time than i have

me (16) and my sister (15) stay with my father who lives upstairs in a four story apartment. on the weekends i bring my 6lb cat, cats are allowed in this building. me and my sister aren’t heavy footed, we aren’t fat, we don’t run, and we don’t jump. my cat plays around sometimes, as cats do. he runs around and jumps off the couch (in an area with a rug). this neighbor is a middle aged man, and once came upstairs to ask me and my sister to stop pounding on the floor, which i would like to say we weren’t. but we did hear him out and felt bad because literally why wouldn’t we. we want to be respectful towards others, but generally assumed the talking to was a one time thing. about a month or two later he approached me alone and asked me to keep the noise down and not walk on my heel.. okay, i apologized multiple times and made an effort to talk quieter. i’ve realized it’s obviously not about how we walk, but how my cat plays. me and my sister didn’t tell my father about any of this mostly out of fear he’d be angry with us or something. today the cat was playing and the neighbor began pounding on the ceiling (our floor). if he chooses to confront us again it could be in front of our father, so i’m not sure wether we should explain the situation to my dad or not. if my dad sides with the neighbor and says to stop bringing the cat over, i’d not come anymore because he needs to be cared for and he is my cat so i have sole responsibility over him. i don’t know wether we should tell my father and risk not coming here anymore or risk having beef with the neighbor. he’s such a scary guy too.

i have a cat that stays with me sometimes in my father’s apartment. he is almost a year old, and like a typical cat will run around and jump and play. he is only 6lbs (last i checked), but the downstairs neighbor has twice complained to me specifically (as if i am the cause) about loud noise. i walk like a normal person, i don’t stomp, i try to stay off my heels because he told me to. i’m wondering if my cat could be the source of the noise? i’m starting to feel scared coming here because of the fact that this guy has gone to me instead of my father multiple times. could it be the cat???