Scared not scary
I wouldn’t say this 100% grinds my gears anymore. It brushes my toes maybe lol.
When people are in an argument and say “you so scary” to communicate that they think “you’re scared”, it just makes them sound dumb… not intimidating. That doesn’t make me want to fight you, it makes me want to hand you a book to read.
I’d prefer “you’re a p*ssy” over “you’re scary” because it just doesn’t make you look tough bro. It’s incorrect and embarrassing imo.