u/No-Celebration5377

I believe one of my regulars has figured out that if he pretends to be different users he can get more of my attention/time without feeling clingy and weird about it. However, I picked up on it pretty quickly. I don’t have 100% proof that it’s him but I’m pretty sure.
I like to split up my time between clients especially if it’s a busy day, so that all my eggs aren’t in one basket. It seems he made different accounts so that he can essentially be in a private shows with be back to back without me giving my time to anyone else.
This is obviously great financially, like BIG $$$ for me but also fucking weird as fuck ????
What do ya’ll think?

Also, r/ Camgirlproblems banned me for something stupid which is extremely upsetting given thats one of our only resources for support and community within the industry.

I know they announced Chase as the new host of the episodes when Stevie left. But recently it’s not Chase, it’s a woman who sounds extremely similar to Stevie?? I don’t remember them introducing her or mentioning anything about it. She sounds great I’m just curious who she is and when they made the transition? Today’s episode for example…

Just moved in, trying to get settled, and the last thing I want to do is go into the creepy shared basement space to do laundry. It’s free, just a basic washer & dryer down there for all the tenants to share. My bf told me it’s a waste of money to go to a laundromat when we have access to that for free. But I just have anxiety about it, it feels unsafe, creepy, and I haven’t met any of the neighbors yet so meeting them accidentally in the dark basement sounds not great. Maybe once I’m more settled here I would start to use the basement laundry, but for now the $10 spent at a laundromat sounds like no big deal. What would you do?
edit: we’re renting a unit in a very old house in a not so great area.

I have no desire to smoke anymore, the cravings are gone. But I’m a disaster mentally. Depression, anxiety, dark thoughts, crying, thinking everyone hates me, my skin is also breaking out horribly so lots of insecurities arising with that.
The only thing making me “crave” to vape/smoke is the joy it would be to NOT feeling like this anymore.
I understand it takes 3+ months to even out.
But still just looking for some comfort and reassurance here because I feel mentally unwell and it’s worrying me.

Quitting vaping nicotine this time was fairly easy. I did use Desmoxan(highly recommend) and have not taken it in a few days now. I just hit 20 days nicotine free. I feel amazing and horrible all at once.
I’m excited for the future to keep making positive changes in my life but simultaneously pissed off at myself for letting it get this bad.
I can feel my body and brain healing, but at the same time I’m realizing how much damage was done.
This is shocking and worrying and depressing honestly due to the dopamine detox going on right now.
I’ve been numbing myself with nicotine for 5 years so a lot of those emotions/trauma I experienced during that time that I was shoving down are coming back up for me. My body feels more energetic and breathing is better but when I exercise I can feel how out of shape I let myself get from spending days just lounging and hitting the vape.

I understand from a quick reddit search that apparently this is *normal*. But I’ve never in my life while apartment hunting seen photos of a lived in unit on a listing. We are in the process of packing so everything is everywhere, boxes everywhere, nothing is cleaned yet, etc. I just don’t understand why they wouldn’t wait ONE week and take actually nice looking photos of the empty apartment. And I’m just shocked because like I said…I’ve never looked at a place to rent online and saw images of someone’s apartment with their belongings in it. It’s always photos of an empty unit. And If I did…I’d probably think “That’s odd. Next.”

In my last post here I asked you guys what I should do about a regular customer annoying me. He hasn’t done anything wrong, spends a lot of money, not creepy or anything. He’s great, but kind of clingy and starting to irritate me.
You ladies mostly all told me to just BLOCK.
What happens when you’ve done it?
Do they get angry and make a new account to retaliate in some way? Or do they just get the hint and just leave you alone?

This happen to anyone else??? Two subreddits I follow but rarely ever post in just messaged me that I’m banned. One is r/longhair and the other was outfitideas or something like that. I didn’t even post anything, only thing I posted on reddit today was in this camgirlproblems sub.

He's not even doing anything wrong. He always pays to chat, always does privates shows, tips during public chat, buys me gifts, is polite, wants very basic requests, never pushes boundaries. He's basically the perfect "regular". However, he's just really starting to irritate me.

He honestly doesn't even spam me in chat, or visit every stream due to opposite schedules.

I guess he's just starting to sketch me out after like 2+ years. He just says corny stuff, tries to make the same jokes over + over, says things like "you okay?" if my expression changes, like pretending to care about me, etc. I will admit I have definitely fed into the behavior at first and treated him like a friend to an extent because $$$ and he's a good regular like I said. But wtf do I do to get rid of this yucky feeling? I don't want to block him... I feel like its messed up to just block him. And I definitely don't want to block the income from him.

If I’m going to quit I want to stop completely when starting the desmoxan. No point in vaping while taking the medication. But I understand the instructions say to continue vaping. What did you guys do or recommend?

These guys are so fucking weird.
Dude PMs me on CB, tells me that he’s knows me from high school and we were friends. Saying he always wanted to fuck me and I’m so hot blah blah blah. So me being curious and comfortable enough with the career I chose….I ask him who he is. Turns out he tells me he’s my old best friend from highschool/college boyfriend. I told him that I miss her, I hope he treats her well, and that I hope she’s aware that he watches live porn and that she’s okay with that fact. He said she does not know, they’ve never discussed it. I left it at that and blocked him.
Then today, her instagram profile pops up on my recommended people so I take a peek…
And sure enough that same exact week they traveled to a different country(that’s why our state wasn’t geo blocked when he was on the camsite) and she posts a photo of her ENGAGEMENT RING.
What the actual fuck 😭

I’ve been approved for apartments in the past using a bank statement but that was when
1.)rent was cheaper
2.)it was easier to make money using one site.
Now I’m applying for apartments and my bank statements look crazy with multiple payments throughout the weeks, multiple websites, small random payments from OF, cashapp payments/donations, etc.
Will this look suspicious to a property management?
Any ways around it?
I’m tempted to buy fake paystubs from a company but I’m aware that this is illegal and doesn’t always work depending on the property.
I also do not want to be denied just solely on discrimination because I’m a sexworker, especially a few of the apartments I’m looking at are owned by private landlords so they can tend to be more nosy.
Any advice is appreciated :)

Thoughts on this??? Usually I struggle to reach the top 1000 MissMFC, but it’s doable. This month I’m shocked at how easy my rank goes up, this is definitely a sign that everyone’s income on MFC is declining.

I like to keep things very simple, but I'm looking to upgrade a bit. I mainly would love to use OBS for something like a spin wheel game, but other than that I'm curious why you girls use OBS instead of just streaming directly from the webcam. I'm not very good with tech stuff but I'm open to learn and want to know if it will be worth the time to learn how to use OBS.