u/No-Cold7424

For context, I (24f) and my bf (25m) live together with our pets, dog, cat, tortise and praying mantis, my parents are in their 40’s my mom is struggling from a broken spine injury from a motorcycle accident and my dad has auto immune disorder and generally are just not super healthy people. My bfs parents had bought tickets to travel across the country to go to a family reunion but about a week and a half before I broke both my elbows at work, a small radial head fracture on each arm, I am getting better but there are still simple things I cannot do that I was relying on my partner for, such as, putting my hair up for work (I work in health care my hair HAS to be up since it’s long) I cannot wash my hair in the shower, I cannot clip my bra on and I cannot drive my car. There are some things I can do but it hurts a lot because certain movements hurt my wrist and up to my elbow, like doing dishes or cooking foods or sweeping or mopping or cleaning the cat litter box or taking our dog outside to go potty because she will pull, I am immensely struggling at work, I can do somethings at work but most things put me in so much pain by the end of the shift that It hurts to buckle my seatbelt or move my arms too much. He had told me he was going to go anyways even when I asked if he could stay because I’m injured and needed him, I came to a compromise and had said my parents could help me out but my mom works online and can’t use my internet (its not good enough) to work at my house and so I would stay there, I have been for the last three days but I cannot get comfortable in general while sleeping nevertheless on a different bed, we have to go to my house everyday twice a day (I live on the other side of town) to give my cat her meds and make sure my mantis enclosure is still within range of humidity and temp and feed my tortoise. I asked him to see if there’s a way he could come home early and through my communications with him when he does pick up the phone he just says idk if my mom wants to, or I’ll ask tomorrow, he’s going to be gone for two more days so 5 total. But I just felt that if roles were reversed and he was injured and I had a trip even if I paid for it and was gonna see family I hadn’t in a while (he saw all of these family members last year at a funeral) I would drop my plans and support my partner and he says he can’t even fathom why I would be upset at him for going and or not coming back early. AITAH for being upset?