AIO To My Husband Making A Big Deal About Sharing A Bed?
So my husband and I are supposed to be going on a road trip to his hometown next week. Normally when we’ve taken this trip, we get a hotel room with two queen beds because at home we don’t sleep in the same bed, due to the fact that we are both super light sleepers and I have mild sleep apnea.
My husband has been an absolute a** hole for the past couple of weeks, because he can’t smoke weed anymore since his work said they would start doing random drug testing so he’s been taking it all out on me. This past Saturday I was showing him this cute dress I bought and I said don’t you think this will look good on me? and he said “You’re going to hate how you look in that”. It hurt my feelings so much, well he apologized for that but then this evening we were talking about what we needed to bring for the hotel and I said remember there’s a big king size bed this time, they didn’t have the two queen beds available. And he started bitching about how he didn’t know how that was going to work and he hoped he could sleep. I said you act like I’m some gross feral animal that you have to lay next to, why don’t you just go by yourself then if it’s a problem.
Then I sent him a picture of the actual king size beds that are in this hotel and these are absolutely massive california king beds. Like we wouldn’t even be near each other. He said “Well, there’s a person standing next to it for scale, it might work. If not then I guess I’ll sleep on that little couch and you can have the bed.” I said “Wtf is wrong with you??” Like he’s really hurting my feelings, I know we don’t typically sleep in the same bed at home but he’s acting like he doesn’t want me within 100ft of him.
So it turned into a fight and now I seriously don’t even want to go. Am I overreacting about this?