Heyyy nk oru opinion vennam... Pls help🙃
Should I talk to my ex-best friend before college ends, or just let it go?
My ex-best friend was also my roommate. We were extremely close before our college union elections.
She became the vice chairperson and I got a much smaller position. From the moment she got that post, she completely changed. She started acting distant, secretive, and would discuss everything with the union chairman (who was her closest friend) while leaving the rest of us out. I often felt like I was just there to help and follow orders.
We had several clashes because of this and eventually stopped talking properly.
The strange part is that every exam season she would suddenly come back, act friendly again, ask for notes, and behave as if nothing had happened. I kept forgiving her because I missed our old friendship.
For her birthday, I even bought gifts and celebrated with her, hoping things would go back to normal. But on her birthday itself, she switched personalities again and started avoiding me completely. She barely reacted to the gift, and honestly that hurt more than I expected.
During university youth festival trips and other events, she would spend all her time with the chairman and other people, especially boys, while completely ignoring the friends she used to be inseparable with.
There were also rumors about financial issues in the union and fund misuse involving her and the chairman, although I don’t know the full truth.
Later I found out she and the chairman might have become involved romantically despite him previously being in a relationship with a junior.
College is almost over now, and I still haven’t felt like talking to her again. I genuinely considered her my best friend, but looking back, I feel used, replaced, and discarded whenever I was no longer useful.
Part of me wants closure before college ends, but another part feels she showed me who she really was.