Aio if I removed my friend from my life after her lack of support?
Me and this girl I’ll call Ella, have known each since we were 8 (we are 19 now). We have always been close, she had a lot of struggles with bully’s in secondary and primary school and college. I support her through it (even though she became friends with them again), she had a lot of family issues, I was there for her as much as I could be. Recently my cousin took his life, I was devastated, on that day I was supposed to hangout with Ella. I told her what had happened and that I wouldn’t be able to see her(June 17th). She said she was sorry for my loss and I should talk to her if I need to. Seeing as we were really close I took what she said literally and actually talked to her about what I was feeling. She replied with “I hear you, it’s upsetting, may his souls rest in eternal peace.” She didn’t reply to a singular thing I had wrote her… and the response just felt so icy and cold, very different from the way we usually talk to eachother. So I didn’t respond to her message, a week later it was the funeral and afterwards me and some other people went back to my aunties house. Ella’s dad showed up and seen me. He said hi, went to talk to my aunt and uncle and then left. Later that day I received a message from Ella “hey op, I just wanted to check up on you and how are doing recently.” This message would have been much appreciated, but I know if her dad had never seen me she would’ve never texted me again, this time I used my brain and realised she didn’t acc want to know in detail how I was doing so I just said I was good and I thanked her. She left me on delivered for 10 hours while posting on her snapchat story and on both her instagram stories and on her instagram notes. I was disappointed. I left her private story and muted her on insta, so I could block it out. She must have noticed because she added me back to her story and texted me back saying we should meet up, I agreed as I wanted to talk to her about everything. Now today we were supposed to meet up . I texted her saying that I’ll see her later. She texted me back saying that she’s ill and can’t make it. Honestly I need advice. I want to block her and never speak to her again, but idk if that’s too much since I’m grieving.