u/No-Wrongdoer1409

Why are ILEs so hard to get along with?

I’ve met so many ILEs and i have not yet confirmed that they are not de facto extraterritorial alien intellectual creatures.

The way their brain is wired is fucking random. I can’t say they are bad or good because of this, it’s just their behaviors and minds are very unpredictable, yet it seems like it operates on some self coherent models which underlying mechanisms are unknown to the majority of us.

It annoys me.
Like *Oh shit, tf is on ur mind now?*

Subtle moral pressures and condemnation don’t work on them. Like they are lacking the neurons for common sense. Lots of them are kind and friendly tho, and I’d say most of them have no evil intentions in nature, a lot of them are the most naive people I’ve ever seen, but the constipated communication, sometimes, is driving me crazy.

Sometimes they are ragebaiting me without intending to ragebait me. They turn me into an ESI. Anyone feel like the same

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 — 4 hours ago

How do you ever bring socionics to real life

Like what am I gonna say? I have this Soviet Myers Briggs you wanna take a personality test that asked you if your tits are pink or if you like to be an authoritarian dictator that enjoys executing people who are against your will? Check out this type description about you can only date your duals? How about the inter type dynamics written by stratiyeviskaya about a random husband cheated on his wife and mortgaged their house for gambling and shit himself in the pants because he’s not a s*nsor, etc etc

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 — 1 day ago

Does My Romance Style Seem More Victim or Childlike?

Orig Credit : u/SUNMOONBIPOLAR
Thought this was fun, so here I go:
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⁠🩵Looks is a necessary but insufficient condition.
I want my ideal partner to be good-looking. Don’t have to be traditionally attractive, but she should have some specific facial and physique I particularly adore: tall, muscular and lean. So athletic.

🩵Personality wise, I want this person to be strong-willed, intelligent, outspoken, genuine and caring. Preferably has good people skills and wide deep useful connections because I feel tired doing them all by myself & it’s not my best skill so far. However, she can’t overpower my own social circle, since socializing is a muscle: if you let others do it, you’ll lose your own ability to do that.

⁠🩵She should be very good in bed, like knowing how to create intense experiences. At the same time, she should not rely on sex for intimacy, as there are many non sexual ways to do that & I do not like to talk abt sex all the time. Being sex averse is a big NO.

🩵⁠I like physical touch a lot. Cuddlemaxxing I would love my ideal partner to be very huggable—and—very ⁠handy; being able to fixing stuff and building stuff is very attractive to me.
Also, good sense of direction, like never getting lost even without a map. ⁠But if not, it’s ok.

🩵I love to play “power games” with my ideal partner, it’s stimulating and a sign of mutual trust with intimacy.
I like to be the one in control more often.

🩵but deep down we must be equal. I don’t like huge power imbalances in any way, like one is financially dependent on the other. But some temporary acts based on reciprocity are good, such as paying the bills when the other person is still busy looking for a job(and they will do the same for me undoubtedly later)

🩵She can’t be too close-minded: at least medium in openness. She should not be very nitpicking and impatient with things that’s not familiar. I would love to have some conversations with her about various topics & we share mutual views, agree to disagree etc. And I expected her to tell me to stop the yapping and focus on my important main agenda when it’s distracting my attention. Plus, on some fundamental beliefs we should always align with each other, or it would be a breakup.

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 — 2 days ago
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Can someone live in Leach tell me how bad it actually is? Too small? Roaches?

Also, How's the engineering better decision RAP?

Is Southwest significantly better in dorm conditions? How many minutes of walk is it from the gym, the cafeteria, and engineering buildings?

I wanna hear your personal experience. Thank you sm

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 — 4 days ago

shoout out to SLI

Yall are so goated.

If I could only choose one type to turn the entire world into, it would be SLI.

Yall are magnificent.

The perfect form of human being , the prototype of homo sapiens, the ideal way of existence, the hope of humanity

Yall are so kind and undramatic, so down to earth and chill

If I had to choose the top 3 types of Socion, it would be 1. SLI 2. SLI 3. SLI 4.IEE 5.ESI

🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪

free cookies for SLIs to take

(im no IEE. so no conflicts of interest involved)

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 — 4 days ago

assigning hair colors to each type

ESE: BLONDE

SEI: brunette, curly

ILE: brunette

LII: BRUNETTE, straight

EIE: many woke colors

LSI: blonde or brunette, straight and firm

IEI: soft curls brunette or blonde

SLE: raven or blonde

SEE: big bouncy curls, BLONDE

ESI: BRUNETTE

LIE: brunette or blonde

ILI: brunette or raven

LSE: brunette

SLI: brunette

EII: brunette

IEE: ginger

0% theories 100% nonsense ❤️

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 — 6 days ago

Can someone get it

Typing yourself/trying to map ur type is a way of self-objectification. when you stop typing urself, you get the ultimate freedom

No I'm neither every type nor no type. I simply opted out this game.

and I enjoy typing others ;)

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 — 7 days ago

Me when seeing the ppl I typed irl acting EXACTLY like the stereotype

I already knew that from the beginning. Not surprising✌️

u/No-Wrongdoer1409 — 9 days ago

anyone wanna see the yuri socioniverse

I had some doodles a while back. Originally not planning to share them because personal reasons. But yeahhh i wanna see how many ppl here are interested.

*Mainly duals because iykyk.

*some are NSFW

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 — 13 days ago

Everytime I meet some new people and have a friendly chat, I'll automatically have very positive outlooks about our relationships, imagine all kinds of potential scenarios, like my life is completely changed after this. Usually lasts less than a week.

For example, if I exchange the contacts with someone in networking events, I couldn't help but start to imagine that they offer me a lot of opportunities, or we collab, cofound an organization, and make huge success. Another example: I met some peers and we chatted. After I got home I spontaneously started to imagine we getting along and then we become really good friends and I will visit them they will visit me.

Most of the times its just ghosting, but this doesn't have any impact on my delusions. Like I dont care?

I'm a realistic grown ass adult. I've met lots of good and shitty people. And I'm definitely not a punch bag kind who always assumes the best in ppl even if they are assholes--actually, I have very low moral expectations in others. And I'm fairly bad at visceral empathy; I have zero tolerance when they turn out to be not beneficial to me. It's like automatic rose tinted glasses.

To add that: when I'm actually interacting with ppl after knowing them for a while, my excited persona will gradually vanish. I'll be kinda serious and not bubbly enough, which oftentimes bothers me. I don't want them to feel the lack of passion because people like to be with sociable ppl.

When it comes to ppl I've been knowing for a long time, Its the opposite: I'll assume they are criticizing me internally/envy/be offended. e.g. I didn't text my middle school best friend (SLI) because I thought she held grudges towards me because I was, conventionally speaking, doing better in life & I said a lot of careless words as a kid. Then I texted her, expected the worst, then turned out she didn't feel like that at all. So I actually need a lot of reassurance from others to maintain a healthy close relationship, to make sure they are not secretly irritated or plotting something, which is why I don't want romantic relationships, beacuse I only like to fuck around with strangers and disappear. Sometimes I test ppl's loyalty.

Or this is actually very common in everyone ig?

edit: who tf is sharing this post?

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 — 16 days ago
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Incoming freshman here. I learned that CS is a pretty competitive department, and I want to declare my minor ASAP. How hard is it to get a CompSci minor? And I leanred that I should take some CS courses(CICS 110/160) in my first year as prerequisites. Is it hard to get registered to these classes? Is it true that non-CS majors can only take the empty spots left after all CS students finish registering? Idk abt a lot of things so please be kind, thank you!

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 — 17 days ago

for those of you who have settled on one type: congrats. Because I can’t.

I don’t feel a consistent sense of self, a continuous identity. I can put on a million of different persona in a million of scenarios. I wanted to seek for something tangible to anchor my identity, but I used the wrong method—typology, but the result was the more I tried the more I’m lost. I feel like every type and no type at the same time, because it all depends on the fucking scenario. there’s nothing on me that is consistent, that is inherently “me”. I joked about being ”omnipotent“ that I can fit into every model if situation is given, but sometimes I feel like ignorance is bliss, and tunnel vision looks boring but happy. I just want someone to punch me in the face til it bleeds and tell me how delusional and fucked up I am from the reality. Jk.

so if you happen to be in the same boat as me, I mean if u can’t settle on a few types forever, just let it go. the root problem is somewhere else.

damn this feels like a schizo post

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u/No-Wrongdoer1409 — 22 days ago