I think my mom is incestuous and I dont know what to do.
Great way to start this off. Uh. Hi, just call me Roman(16-17 afab, transmasc), and I think my mother has been trying to be more so incestuous with me for a while whether she means to or not.
For starters, she has always commented on my body, specifically my chest and groin area(as well as weight) since I started puberty(9). She has not stopped no matter how many times I've asked her to, and when I tell her to step out of the room to let me change she refuses. She also forces me to try on new clothes in front of her when we get them, not allowing me to step into the bathroom and change, even if it's for my bra or underwear.
Next, she continues to ask about my sexual life, making jokes about it, and commenting on how I "can have sex as long as I don't drink or smoke." As well as before this, she would grope me 'playfully' and try to smack my ass.
She has lost interest in my dad, almost treating him like her child instead of her partner. This aggravates him, so they stopped talking despite living in the same house.
She had found my 'toy' and has now decided to continue to bring it up, and constantly ask if I want her to buy me one, despite me refusing each time. She decided that she would also touch it, despite knowing what it's used for, and moving it to an obvious place so I would know that she did. And she did it on purpose.
The reason why I'm making this post just happen. She had came into my room and said she had a "mystery bag" for me. When i had opened the bag, I had found sex toys and she started joking saying things along the lines of "these are better" and "i thought you'd like these ones," before grabbing one and deciding to turn it on and try to make me put it on. I refused and she scoffed and then pulled another one out, making more jokes before she finally left.
I've told her countless times that I don't feel comfortable with this and she refuses to listen. I'm scared as there are 3 other children in this household, and cps/dss has came over 5 times for different things and nothing has been done.
Edit: As much as i want to call CPS, they've basically stopped answering for stuff at my household after the 5th time someone reported. Each time they didn't do anything.
As well as the groping started when I was about 9-10 if I remember correctly, possibly 11 at max when it started.
Me, my dad, my mom, my sister(31), and her three kids(1 boy 2 girls) live in the same house. My sister also takes it as a joke and my dad doesnt want to be involved with anything to do with my mother at this point.
Update: August 18th | I told my dad about it when I was picked up from school. He said he'd talk with her, but knowing her she'll turn it into a screaming match and storm off because it was him that brought it up.