We men are setting ourselves back. And there's no excuse
I am a male but I have a serious question for hetero men. Why do you constantly say that "there's no hope for romance"? Why do you say that "i'm desparate"? Why do you call females overstepping boundaries of males as "drowning [with pleasure?]"? There's a reason males are overlooked when it comes to harrasment cases, and it's because of these excuses. Excuses, excuses, excuses.
The answer is simple; in the west today, women/girls make up either equal or more populations than men/boys. There's little to no reason to claim that the "value" of women (gender-based value... what is this, the 50s?) in dating is more than men's. Yet you do. In extreme cases, people even call male sa victims lucky. Why?
I'm not going to yap, and I'm not going to vent, but I have one simple question to ask; what do you think makes 'men's value decrease' (if it's not your own faults) and why does it radicalize?