u/No_Chipka_Chipki

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I asked a Reddit friend to be brutally honest about something because she had previously told me that she thought I was “desperate.”

She explained that she had seen some of my comments/replies to girls and felt that the way I talked to them seemed a little too calculated/cunning, while I came across as innocent to her in our conversations.

When I asked her why she thought I was desperate, she basically said that I seem to prefer talking to girls over guys. I told her that I’ve been more comfortable around girls since childhood, so maybe that explains it. I also admitted that sometimes I do feel jealous when I see couples because I feel like I could have had that too, but never really got love/companionship.

Her response was basically that jealousy itself doesn't make someone desperate, and that I should actually understand what “desperate” means.

Now I'm genuinely confused.

From this conversation, do I actually come across as desperate/cunning, or just a normal guy who wants companionship and happens to be more comfortable talking to girls?

Be brutally honest. If there are red flags in the way I interact with girls, tell me directly. I’m not looking for validation.

TL;DR: A Reddit friend called me desperate/cunning based on how I interact with girls. I explained that I’ve always been more comfortable talking to girls and sometimes feel jealous seeing couples. She said jealousy doesn’t necessarily mean desperation. So, do I actually come across as desperate/cunning, or am I just a normal guy looking for companionship? Be brutally honest.........

TL;DR: A Reddit friend called me “desperate/cunning” based on how I interact with girls. I explained that I’ve always been more comfortable talking to girls and sometimes feel jealous seeing couples. She said jealousy doesn’t necessarily mean desperation. So, do I actually come across as desperate/cunning, or am I just a normal guy looking for companionship? Be brutally honest.