I want to build one off of the chassis i shot in my time in the military. The EBR, but i need budget, im willing to spend money on glass but what i really want is a good solid lpvo with a .308 BDC. Any recommendations on chassis, rifle and glass?
So my wife (34f) and I (36M) have a pretty healthy relationship. However; lately our sex life has become pretty bland. We are intimate maybe once every week or two and when we do its almost exclusively missionary. I give her oral frequently because I enjoy making sure she's enjoying it. I enjoy it when we are intimate but I feel like lately its just a check in the box for her and she is stuck in the "if it aint broke dont fix it" mentality when im in the "variety is the spice of life" mentality. She hasn't given me oral in over 2 years and we havent done anything other than mostly missionary and the very rare her on top with me doing the work from the bottom. How do i softly explain to her that i want to try new things without hurting her feeling or at the very least have her go down on me during foreplay?
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How do I explain to my wife i want to expirament in the bedroom or at the very least have oral as foreplay without hurting her feelings?
So this morning my wife (34f) and I (35m) were sitting on the couch watching our three little ones play. She poked me with her finger and asked what we were going to do today. We started talking and eventually I kissed her a few times. I jokingly said "wanna sit here and make out like teenagers?" She then rolled her eyes and said that isnt her anymore and I asked why and she said, "I dont know the older I get the less affectionate I feel." This is a huge deal for me and ive told her such in the past. Ive best over backwards for her, I work two jobs, I cook dinner, I clean, I do the laundry. Ive told her multiple times that I dont feel appreciated or wanted and each time she says she doesnt know how or why I feel that way. Im losing my mind overhear doing everything I can and feeling like the simple wants and needs I have are getting brushed off and ignored. I love her I truly do. Shes the mother of my children and my life partner but I honestly feel like she doesnt care about me right now. I know most answers are going to be have you told her and I have tried but I still feel ignored. Is there anything else I can do?
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Wife straight up told me she doesnt feel affectionate anymore and its driving me insane.