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11 MONTH UPDATE CORSET ARMOR!

Someone said see you in a year for the update, so here is month 11 (i had to take a good 6 months off for my health and surgery, had to go back on tube feeds.. its been rough)

This somehow became a forever project,

Pauldrons, bracers.. its all in the mix now..

I have the corset base mostly done but no finishing touches. Im honestly disappointed in the shape(too square).

I think ill be starting another one, and try to use an actual corset pattern. (Ps the hole is for my feeding tube..)

u/No_Corner_798 — 1 day ago
▲ 42 r/AskWomenOver30

Why am I so ableist against myself in relationships?

Can the disabled aunties come to the front? Though anyone's input is valuable.

TLDR: Im terrified of traumatizing people I love with my own existence.

In short, im dating someone. It's serious, and he has the most amazing child. I never thought of entertained children as my illnesses have genetic components (50%pass on)

I love kids, kids love me, have always been drawn to me. Im maternal even tho I'll never be a mother *I don't know how to turn that off* I love this little one.

He has never (at 4 mind you) batted an eye at my leg braces, feeding tube etc. Even wants to use my"walking stick" that's not the problem..

But me? Im so worried that he's the one, THEY'RE the one, how the scary rule coaster of my life will affect him/ them. Its HARD to watch those you love hurt, sick etc. And my life is in sickness and not health. Can they handle the journey, YES no doubt. But without added trauma?? Idk..

Im terrified of traumatizing people I love with my own existence. I cant therapize it away ive tried.

No matter how much I know i deserve to be loved. And deserve to love them. Will I ever get over this feeling?? Im more stable then I have been in years and this still haunts me

I hope this all makes sense to someone.

🤟🏽

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u/No_Corner_798 — 3 months ago