I wanna get better (in some parts at least)

I (30M) just recently learned about this. Already familiar with schizophrenia and schizoid personality disorder due to pop psych appearing in my fyp from time to time. But for the longest time, I always thought I might have just undiagnosed ADHD and social anxiety for my weird hyperfixation on various topics that any normal people wouldn't touch and being neurotic to be put in social situations where I have to tell people what I enjoy outside of work, respectively. My only experience with a mental healthcare professional is with a psychotherapist (which was wrong btw, psychologist first b4 them) where I told him my struggle and the session was so embarrassing because I felt like he saw me being Jaden Smith being pretentious and performative how deep and mysterious I am. Hence, it's been two years since that incident.

Now it's concerning me. It's like I'm positive in all symptoms of Schizotypal PD.

Having strange beliefs:

I consider myself a Hermeticist. Basically a spiritual alchemist. I believe that I have the power (and others as well) to weave the fabric of reality with thoughts. But I do it with some items and ritual. When I'm riding my motorcycle I say "vincere" so that I don't get into accident. When I'm around people I'm visualizing myself having an aura to prevent contamination by cleansing myself continually. I used to be carrying a labradorite crystal with me which is bathed in monthly in full moon and I put into my crown of the head to heighten my intuition (accidentally broke it, so it has now powers anymore). And so much more. And it can be really disappointing for me if things don't go my way. I just need more training.

Uncomfortable with people:

Paranoia. I can sense vibes. I have this feeling that I know if people are talking about me negatively. I have pattern recognition for that. That's why I isolate myself. And my coworkers are uncomfortable having me around because I act like this too. But I just hate inauthentic people and those giving snide remarks. Sometimes when I'm alone I'm being approached by one of them for a pep talk, telling me to socialize or have some sense of companionship. Reminding me that those behaviors are normal in a group and I just have to ride it, not take those seriously. As much as I hate making excuses but I grew up in an environment where I have to pay attention to subtle microexpressions or else I'll get myself in trouble.

Cognitive impairments:

Sometimes if I zoned out, I feel like the things I'm staring at is expanding and the space behind it is warping, but not exaggerated. It's slow and almost unnoticeable at first unless I concentrate.

There's many to mention but I don't want to lengthen the post than it already is. I wanna seek help even though I think it's cringe to do so. Honestly, there's side of me that wants to get a diagnosis for this because it will be easier for me to attack the enemy if they get named. And access to big-pharma approved drugs (I hate them but I have to). Also, in our country, we get 20% discount on any purchase to those people with disability including mental. What a waste right?

However, if I seek help for this, it'll be like I'm admitting to myself that I am the problem. Not the people around me or the environment. We live in a society™ that is so fucked up that anxiety and depression is simply the normal reaction to it and yet we are expecting to adapt?? We all know the root cause for this but the SYSTEM is actually designed that it's too late to overhaul it now. So here I am in my own silly world, trying to affect only on what's within my control. Struggling to control my thoughts because it's getting harder to have access to acid and shrooms. Fml

So yea, how should I raise this concern to an expert without sounding like a poser? If I do get access to those meds, am I going to lose my whimsy?

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u/No_Ear_7733 — 2 days ago

Recommend brilliant MC trope series

Wala kong gana magrewatch ng mga all-time fave ko gaya ng mga to (though Sherlock and Hannibal lang talaga). Kailangan ko ulit manood ng palabas na sobrang talino ng bida na may eksena rin ng study habits nya siguro para ma-inspire ako. May pinaghahandaan akong exam kaso tinatamad talaga ako at need ko ng inspo. Naaadapt ko kasi yung character ng latest show na napanood ko kaya need ko yung super brilliant na kahit socially inept, kaya makipagsabayan sa mundo. Maganda sana kung mystery series din

u/No_Ear_7733 — 2 months ago

Meron pa bang Obsession (2026) sa Friday?

Need ko sya mapanood sa sinehan na. Like sa Trinoma, SM North, or Megamall. Ganun?

Pic for attention

u/No_Ear_7733 — 2 months ago

Becoming OFW - A Comprehensive Guide

So I made this guide for our countryfolks na gusto i-speedrun ang paghahanap ng opportunity abroad. So yung ilalagay ko lang yung alam kong pinakamadali:

JAPAN

TITP pathway. Kung willing mag-blue collar work---welder sa lalaki, farmer sa babae. Though not fixed naman sa gender role pero yan talaga nakikita kong hinahanap ng mga employer sa Japan. Strictly, no tattoo and/or major surgery sa katawan. Willing mag-aral ng Nihongo for 3-4 months shouldered by employer.

If you're going with this, arm yourselves with relevant welding or farming NC II. May nakita ako na as low as 6 months of experience AT LEAST ay qualified mag-apply.

Another one is factory worker in a raw food manufacturing facility. No experience required dito kaya ito talaga pinakamadali pero dahil bago sya not sure about this so research nyo na lang.

Feasibility of Good Living: May mga influencer na nagddrama sa Tiktok at FB kesyo mahirap daw talaga ang buhay nila doon dahil mataas ang cost of living din. May mga natitira pa sa mga kinikita nila pero kaya meron kasi ulam nila araw-araw itlog

Resources: Tai-Fil Manpower Corp. | Sanko Employment Solutions Inc. | Mga Japan OFW influencers

SOUTH KOREA

G2G EPS pathway. Kung willing mag-work as factory worker, okay. Kailangan mag-aral ng Hangeul. May mga iba pang requirements pa na nakalimutan ko na. Hindi need ng experience dito pero just so you know, sobrang competetive ng job market dito. Di lang Pinoy kalaban mo kundi iba pang mga South Asians or Africans na marunong mag-Hangeul at may factory work exp. Kaya kung bitbit mo lang e yung wika, kulang. At kahit mataas edge mo sa majority ng ibang applicants, matagal kang maghihintay na mapili sa roster ng mga qualified to the point na ma-expired na lang yung application mo at kailangan mo ng certification renewal.

Feasibility of Good Living: Tens to hundred thousand in peso ang sahuran. Maraming yumaman talaga sa mga pinalad makapag-Korea. May mga napagpaaral yung anak nila sa prestigious private school o kaya naman yung isa nagbebenta ng betta fish sa Pinas pag-uwi kasi asensado na

Resources: Bans Korea | Any FB groups discussing EPS TOPIK

TAIWAN

Not familiar with the VISA. Pareh lang din yung hinihinging reqs gaya sa ibang bansa except may kasamang voter's registration certificate. So kakaiba sya probably security issues kaya may ganyan. Factory worker and caregiver ang nakita ko na meron. Pero may blue collar at white collar. Fixed ang sahod sa kahit anong employment agencies pero mas malaki sahod ng mga white collars.

Feasibility of Good Living: Malaki rin yung sahuran at may natitira pa sa mga tao para makapagpadala. Wala pa kong nakita na influencer na nasa Taiwan tas nagddrama, baka magaling lang din magtago ng problema. Pero puro OFW hopium kasi ang posts nila for page engagements

Resoures: Adii sa Taiwan | Sky Bourne Int'l Inc.

MIDDLE EAST

Wala namang nagbago ganun pa rin. Construction at healthcare pa rin ang malakas. So kukuha kayo ng NC II na related dun para makapasok kayo. Middle East rin ang usual gateway para makapasok sa mga developed countries. Minsan nirerequire nila na dapat ex-abroad preferably nanggaling sa Middle East so maybe don't skip this one kung may target kayong country in the West. May mga qualification kasi na hinihingi at minsan di tinatanggap yung experience na galing Pinas lang dahil di nila tinitingnan na international standard ang work sa Pinas.

Sa workabroad.ph maraming cleaning jobs na di need ng working exp kaso mababa sahod.

Feasibility of Good Living: Depende pa rin. May mga taong di makaipon dito kasi mura mga alahas at bili lang ng bili. May mga influencers na nagpapakita ng realities dito na yung mga considered safe places ay delikado na dahil sa mga holdapan na nangyayari.

Resources: Kahit sinong influencer sa Middle East pwede

AUSTRALIA & NEW ZEALAND

Construction and healthcare works. Taas ng work exp required usually (5 years) at dapat galing sa abroad, hindi sa Pinas. May mga times din na di sapat ang high school graduate at hinihirit ng mga employment agencies na at least 1 year in college. Passed English exams rin kailangan.

Feasibility of Good Living: Dahil kengkoy mostly mga influencers dito di mawari kung maayos nga ba buhay nila o hindi. Some are complaining about cost of living and rising rent prices at yung iba naman parang wala lang. Maybe nature of work din nila yung iba maganda, yung iba hindi

Resources: Kahit sino na sa kanila

Sorry for the low effort as you read down this post. Di talaga sya ganun ka-comprehensive. Naubos na motivation ko. Ginawa ko tong post na to kasi yung isang member dito aping api yata pag tinatama yung mga entitled TESDA NC II holders dito na gusto mag-ibang bansa agad agad ni local experience nga wala. Tas nag-edit pa ng comment to make me sound na low comprehension ako. Kilala mo kung sino ka. 😎👉👉

Anyway, may mga target countries kayo na di ko nasama dito. Or nandito sya pero kulang ang info. Ang masasabi ko lang follow nyo yung mga resources na related dun and keep engaging so that the algorithm will sort relevant posts or users na informative at talagang sasagot sa mga tanong nyo. I hate those VAs na nagsasabi palagi ng do your own research instead of tumulong na lang sana. Pero need nyo talaga mag-research on your own kung gusto nyo umalis sa Pinas.

Dagdag nyo na lang sa comment section yung mga alam nyo or any criticism (constructive or destructive, whichever).

Natapos ko na laro dyan sa Pinas at nasa ibang level ng rat race na ko ngayon. Sana kayo rin. Lalo ka na ikaw nag-eedit ng comment na may asawang nag-aaral ng caregiving para makaalis at di sama samang mabulok sa Pinas. Sana ikaw rin

u/No_Ear_7733 — 3 months ago