u/No_Future2046

The name i identify whit is quesy

A bit of context;

I've hated my deadname ever since i was a literal kid. bad experiences and it was way too feminine ever since i kinda of got hit whit genderroles around i think 7 y.o. I grew up whit two brothers and alot of boy friends because i was just so hateful towards anything to feminine for me. So of course clichee i started playing video games very early and got to my back than called gamertag 'quesy' around 9 y.o. and that kind of sticked and has become my name for around 2 years now. I really like it since q is my favourite letter and i think the name looks written down and spoken out very pretty and androgynous.

So i just want someone to be brutaly honest if it sound androgynous and also what was your first Instinct of pronouncing it since i'm from germany and everybody kinda of seems to struggle whit it so i'm just interested

just ro clarify the correct way to pronounce it would be;

for english speaker: kwehzy

for german speaker: kwesi

So i've been identifying as Asexual for about 2 years (after i first found out about this being an option) because i never in my whole life feelt sexual attraction towards anyone else. I feelt it, just not towards other people.

Now here is what i'm confused about, I've got a partner for about 4 months now and i've never been happier befor but since i meet them i started to feel sexual attraction, not directly after meeting them, yes i knew they where gorgeous af and i feelt attracted, just didn't feel any sexual attraction (yet). I only started to feel sexual attraction after we had a pretty deep bond so about 1-2 ish weeks into the relationship. (We had a pretty long and throughout situationship)

Because of that i thought i may be demi-sexual but that didn't really make sense to me since i had deep connections whit my exes befor but never feelt even slightly sexual attracted to any of ehm.

Then i stumbeled across graysexual which i related to more, and i know its purposly vage keept because everybody can decide how they see themselves in being graysexual but i still don't really know if thats what i really am because i do experiences sexual attraction very frequently and very intesnly whit my current partner

So basically i'm just trying to figure out what i am and i know in the end i have to decide that myself but is there anyone who may know about any kind of sexuality i have'nt heard about yet that might describe what i feel like?