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Me and my friend and her Mum (we’re minors) got tickets to a concert together last year. I have been super excited for it. Suddenly, with only a moment’s notice, she tells me that her mum is giving her ticket to my friend’s boyfriend. Now, I really don’t want to be an asshole, it’s her ticket, she can do whatever she wants with it. But I have never met this boyfriend before. I know nothing about him, have only ever seen him a few times and he has never spoken or looked at me.

My friend knows that I have selective mutism and severe social anxiety, and that it gets bad around new people where often I am barely able to speak at all. So it’s not that she’s unaware. But now that her boyfriend (an absolute stranger) is coming to the concert with us I’m starting to feel quite anxious about it, and that I won’t be able to be enjoy and get the most out of a concert I was looking forward to since last year. I know I just have to suck it up and deal with it but just thought I’d vent it all out here.

Heyy is anyone here seeing Conan Gray in Auckland NZ?? Also double points if you're a wolfstar fan!!

Hey... so this is a bit of a weird question but I just wanted to ask it here because I'm not sure if anyone else would understand my anxiety. Anyway, it's for the girls. So I haven't gotten regular periods in the last 2 or so years, sometimes I can miss up to 7 months. I have gone to the doctor once before and have also gotten a blood test, and nothing has shown up. I know that anxiety can often affect your menstrual cycle. Is this true? Has anyone else experienced the same? Just wanna know if I'm not alone in this lol.

So I’ve been writing the next chapter to my wolfstar fic, right?
I check the word count out of curiosity... 10,000 words!!! It’s not even done yet!! I thought I wrote like 3000!!

Do you guys like long chapters? 😭😭

I have a psychologist for my selective mutism and she just doesn’t ask me any questions!! except for a ‘how are you?‘ I ended up having to start like 99% of the conversations, and even so she would just give me a short answer and then we’d lapse back into silence. Which, I guess is sort of exposure therapy, but I thought psychologists were supposed to, I dunno, be psychological? Ask me questions about my sm? Give me coping mechanisms? Just TELL me things??? It honestly just felt like a waste of time and money

I'm hoping to write a book with a magic system centred around stars/heavenly bodies. Does anybody have any recommendations for nonfiction books about stars or fiction books with similar magic systems?

Thank you!

I just saw a vent TikTok about this poor girl with selective mutism, and all the comments were like 'that's just shyness' or 'people are just making up disorders nowadays' or 'just talk'.

What? Just... What??

I’ve been struggling with quite severe selective mutism for the last decade, unable to speak with anyone at school—even my parents while they dropped me off. But the last 9 days I’ve spoken to 8 different people at school! Even if some of them were just an one word answer it was better than I ever would’ve thought I’d be able to do just a year or two ago so I’m quite happy about that 🙂

I just opened a new reed, and I accidentally chipped it on a piece of paper... I'm wondering if it's still usable if the chip is tiny (the width of a piece of hair) because I really don't want to throw out a new reed. And also, how will a chip this small affect my playing? Thanks a lot.

I am literally obsessed with yuri wolfstar. Would love some fic recs if anyone has some!! Tysm 🫶🫶