u/No_Range_9458

Parents forcing me to come home every weekend after moving out

I am a 22 yof of south asian Muslim descent. After living at home all throughout college, I have recently moved out to live closer to work, which is 40 minutes from my parents. Since moving out over a month and a half ago, my parents have been begging me incessantly to come home every weekend and sublet my apartment so I can move back home. When I go to visit them, they make me stay with them until the very last minute (refusing to give me a ride to the metro, hiding my keys, etc). I understand that this is unacceptable behavior on their part, but a part of me almost feels addicted to the suffering and I am struggling to find the motivation to put my foot down.

If anyone has any advice, I would really appreciate it!

sincerely,

burned out eldest daughter

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u/No_Range_9458 — 4 days ago