u/No_Rub_2213

Im wondering this because whenever I have a crush, I like them a LOT, like i think abt them a lot, and whatnot... but when that crush likes me back I instantly lose feelings. I'm not sure if it's because I just dont like them anymore, or if it has to do with being uncomfortable at the idea of pursuing a relationship, orrr being afraid of commitment and stuff like that idk. Like, everytime I see a couple I get a little jealous bcuz I want to be able to be in a relationship, but I always lose interest, and I wish I didn't.

To start, IM not aroace, I'm lithromantic but like the person i have a crush on is aroace yk??? and like i'd never even try to confess bcuz hes aroace and im 99% sure he doesnt want to pursue a relationship... i just wish i didnt have a crush on him bcuz i really just wanna respect his boundaries.. man idk im just yapping