Intimacy struggles newly married (M)
Asalamu’Alaykum,
I am a young M who has recently gotten married Allhumdullilah. Cutting to the point, half of the time intimacy works fine and it feels amazing. The other half of the time it’s working fine, and then maybe I don’t give in to the feeling (or Im not able to?) Idk, and I loose my erection. I don’t jerk off, use porn, etc. it feels kind of numb down there after, I still really want to finish (like pent up feeling down there) but I can’t get hard. It kind of feels kind of overstimulated maybe? Like a long time ago (many years) when I wud jerk off a lot in a day, that numb/soreish kinda feeling. But there’s nothing like that here, we don’t even go for that long maybe 5-7 mins before this happens. This doesn’t happen with handjobs, we haven’t done any oral. Please help and give advice!!