u/No_Turn_6863

Hello! This is a little random, but I’m graduating on 5/19 and my commencement starts at 7:45 AM. Before that, I’d love to ride on a motorcycle for about 45 minutes.

I really like being a motorcycle passenger because I don’t have to focus on the road and can just enjoy the view. I don’t have a motorcycle license, so I’m only looking to ride as a passenger.

Ideally, we’d leave from Downtown Berkeley around 6:30 AM, ride around campus or up toward the hills on the east side, and drop me off near the southwest corner of campus before my ceremony.

I can pay $100. Any motorbike is fine, but I would need a helmet. Please be a safe, experienced, licensed rider — I would very much like to arrive at graduation in one piece.

DM me if you’re interested. Thank you!

Undergoing some relationship problems... Just wondering if UC Berkeley provides any relationship consultation just like mental health consultation. There is a lot of information online, but mostly not provided by the school as I do not have budget for this... Any information or comments are appreciated!

I came out to my bf as a bi last year, told him that I liked a girl at high school. But recently, for the first time in 7 years since we got together, I had a crush on someone else. I guess my feelings for him has changed over time. We were on long-distance for the first 6 years, until last year we got in the same grad school and then moved in together. Then some hidden problems started to merge, like chors, living habbits. I just can't imagine myself living with him in the next 10 years.

Anyway, she is a faculty at my university, probaboly 5 or 6 years older than me. She is just doing her work and I got attracted. I can't helping thinking about her, even when my bf and I are having dinner, are talking, and doing groceries. I would look at her pictures and listen to her music at our apartment. I feel bad. She made me realize that I need to break up with my bf. Even though I know probably she is not interested in me, still occupying my bf while thinking about another person is not fair to him. But he did nothing wrong. We indeed have very different lifestyles but it is neither of our fault.

I will graduate in 2 weeks. I guess I will never see her again. I don't plan to ask her out... I requested to follow her on ig and she didn't approve. That's a obvious signal that she is not interested in me. And we are from different countries, different culture. I also can't imagine myself living together with her. When I am 70, I guess I will be all along living with a tree and a bird in the suburbs. Maybe inviting some friends occassionally.

I don't know... A lot of things are going on recently. I am going to graduate, going to start working, going to figure out my relationship, going to figure out my sexuality...I can't live on like this but I am scared to make changes...How did you find the courage to make a change when it is not the fault of neither of you two?