u/Nocturemy

Hi!

As said in the title, I've had my angel fangs for a little more than a month, and while I was sleeping I realised one of them fell out, and it seems to have already started closing, as I could not get it back in, (it bled a little when I tried too.)

Do you guys know when or even if I can get them re-piercing. They are my dream piercing so it really makes me sad. I haven't touched the other one at all it still seems to hang on well.

Help!

Hey!

I know i'm young but please take this seriously as it does really take a toll on me. I have a boyfriend, a long distance relationship. Despite the distance, it is my main and most important connection at the moment: i'm not a very social person with many friends, and I also have autism. He's almost the only person that talk to me everyday.

We've been together for 4 months, but have been close friends for maybe 3 months before then. This man is very in love with me, there's no doubt in it, and I really love him aswell. He's been here to support me like no one has been, and has respected me. I have some boundaries that may be very annoying for most people due to trauma, but he always tried his best to respect them and kindly reassured me about them. Furthermore, he's also very obsessive, which irks me a bit, but for many it may be good! He's clingy, gives me constant compliments, saves pictures of me In his gallery, draws me sometimes and overall tells me im his world.

And he's mine too, really, my life has been affected so much by him in a positive light. But the thing is, he's also overwhelming me a lot. Because he seems to only rely on me for all his mental health issues, which I always try to help him with, but often I feel like I'm not enough. I can't cheer him up all the time, I do sometimes but not always. Sometimes he can get a little mean and cold which hurts me too. I don't want him to rely on me, because it genuily ruins my day everytimes he gets sad, because I know I will have a serious tense time with him. Not only that, but for his own sake, I want him to have his own support system beyond me, that'd be way healthier. But he's also pretty alone.

All of that makes me resent him a bit, and makes me wonder if I'm built for this. Because he's not a bad person, he's not. He's good and just struggling and sometimes doing things I know he cant control or doesn't mean, but it still hurts me, so much. Leaving seems so selfish and scary, especially since he has been there for me aswell. I do love him, a lot, I wanna be there for him. But it drains me and ruins hours of my day, i spend so much time in pain because of it all. But again, it feels so selfish to just leave, especially leave a man so great and so kind to me. I know he loves me so much and doesn't want me to leave either, he says i'm his reason to get up in the mornings. Nobody has ever cared for me that way, what if I don't find anybody like that ever again and regrets it? As I said I have such specific boundaries, it's difficult to live with and he's been so kind to me about it. I just don't know, I'm afraid.

TLDR: boyfriend is the kindest, sweetest anybody has ever been to me, but being with him also exhausts me a lot emotionally, so much so it ruins my daily life. What should I do?