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I recently lost quite a lot of weight due to a medical issue. I’m in the process of gaining it back and I decided to improve my diet.  My gf and I split the cost of groceries 50/50 but since I was planning to buy a lot of high protein snacks and more things to add into my meals, I bought these separately since it’s not fair for my gf to have to pay for them. 

I started stocking up on things and it’s costing me an extra £50 every two to three weeks on average. One thing I’ve noticed is that I’ll go to have some of the snacks and my gf has already had them.  I mentioned this to her and she said I can just buy more.

I told her I’m specifically buying it for me so I’d appreciate it if she didn’t eat them. She said she should be able to eat things that are in our home.  I then said we can start adding them to the shared grocery shop then so she can pay for them but she disagreed and said it’s not something she needs so she shouldn’t have to buy them.

  I just told her to stop eating them if she isn’t willing to pay for them then but she said I was starting an argument over nothing. 

AIO for telling her to stop eating my food?

When I was at university I had a close friendship group with the people I lived with. There were 4 guys and two girls.

We all planned to go on holiday together to celebrate finishing but due to other circumstances it didn’t end up happening.

We're all from different cities and have different schedules and commitments so it has been impossible to all get together.

One of the guys made a group chat and mentioned us all going on the holiday and said we should do it this summer. We all agreed and started looking at hotels, hostels, airbnbs etc.

I told my gf what we were planning and she asked if she was invited. I said on since it was just the friendship group and no one is bringing their partners.

She said she found it weird I was going on holiday without her and that she thinks she should be invited. I said no again and explained again what the trip was for.

She repeated that she thinks she should be coming or that I shouldn't be going but I just told her there's nothing wrong with going on holiday without your partner.

She said I was being disrespectful towards her by going on holiday with other women.

AITAH for refusing to invite my girlfriend on holiday?