u/Normal_Bidd

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1. Wrath:

Can he bridle the tempest within his chest, and let small grievances drift like dust upon the wind? Or does a quiet malice linger in his dark embrace, weaving a cold shroud of bitterness?

2. Honor

Is his jealousy born of true devotion, or is it a hollow mask of dominance, shifting its weight to match the crowd and the place? Know that such fragile pride speaks of a fractured soul, mimicking a power it has never truly known.

3. Authority

Does the gentlest breeze threaten his manhood?

Does he force his will merely to play the alpha, or does a quiet, unshakeable strength guide his steps mindful only of true outcomes, leaving petty trifles to fade into the dust?

4. Sovereign Will

Does he walk as the master of his own destiny, or are his decisions swayed by your touch alone?

Beware: clay that is easily molded by your hand will take the shape of another's just as readily, beginning with the mother who bore him.

5. Him and Wealth

Does he reach into your purse for coin, and pry into the measure of your gains?

If so, let wisdom guide your eyes for his gaze may be fixed upon your treasure, not your soul.

6. Wit

Never bind your life to a fool.

His simplicity might serve a passing need, but to walk the long, winding road of years beside an empty mind is a burden too vast to bear.

7. Foresight and Duty

Can he carry the weight of the hearth the quiet provisions, the rising bills with practiced grace?

Does he map the horizon before the journey begins, keeping a spare wheel ready for the sudden storm, or does he steer recklessly through the dark, blind to the shadows ahead?

(Girls upvote if you want the tests men should pass (they're way moooore than 5)

My friend, never commit to a woman before she passes these 5 essential tests:

1. Respect Under Anger

Observe her when she’s furious, not when she’s sweet. Does she threaten you or try to humiliate you? Or does she maintain her composure? Anger reveals the truth.

2. The Peace Test

Ask yourself honestly: does she make your life easier or heavier? Does she bring focus or stress? A healthy relationship should feel like peace, not a second job

3. Unsupervised Loyalty

How does she behave when you’re not around? Is she consistently respectful and disciplined, or is she out seeking attention? True loyalty doesn’t need to be babysat.

4. The Hard Times Test

Face a setback whether it’s a loss of time, money, or comfort and watch her reaction. Is she supportive, or does she pull away, distant and annoyed? Anyone can love you at your peak, but few stay to walk through the desert with you.

5. Cooperation

Is she capable of following your lead without turning every little thing into an endless debate? I’m not talking about control or fear; I’m talking about cooperation.

If she fails even a single test, walk away. Good partners are rare, so choose wisely or you'll pay the price forever.

Test should a man pass!