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As per the title, the contractor previously mentioned that he'd install the tray first and only then put the tiles on top to ensure that water can't seep through and instead would slide from the tile directly onto the tray.

When I realised late today that they've done floor to ceiling tiles and that the shower tray wasn't taken into account I asked and was told that because the tray will be raised on legs it won't be a problem. I can see several - silicone will be the only barrier for the water, the tray will stick out more meaning that my enclosure may not fit on top and will stick out.

What are the options? Is the only option to pull off the bottom tiles, waterproof with paste, put the tray and then put new cut tiles in? I suspect he'll try to cut them while on the wall - this seems a bit dangerous and will most likely impact the waterproofing course.

For information my shower tray is from Victorian Plumbing, it's the raised offset quadrant Aurora and the enclosure is Torreno also from VP.

Really not sure how to deal with this one, I'm being treated like a hysterical woman for pointing out these obvious concerns. HELP

Hello fellow Reddit brides! Me and my fiancé have been engaged for over a year and we can't possibly decide as to what type of wedding we want. We looked at various venues in Portugal (this is where his family is from) but I'm immediately getting triggered by the amount of guests, planning and effort required to pull this off. To add, doing it in Portugal will mean that his aunties and other cousins will have it so easy they will all show skyrocketing our guest list and costs, while my family is unlikely to all be able to come.

To add to the complexity, I'm not sure I want all my "friends" there as not all of them are good friends, but mere acquaintances. Recently I had a fall out with my friend who was supposed to be my maid of honour where she made it clear she doesn't really care about my fiancé, adding to my doubts about this friendship and whether I want people who don't care about the marriage at my WEDDING.

Our options are to keep it small and fly somewhere far where only those who actually care will come and without pressure that we need to invite everyone we know. I do want this day to be about us, and not others. I want to relax and enjoy rather than worry about the guests, their dynamics and them making it about them i.e. partying like it was just a night out.

Not sure if anyone can relate, but I really need some wise words!

Shower tray NOT installed before tiling. Contractor mistake and how to remediate?

Can't decide on big or small wedding