People think I should keep this to myself
I’m not Very open about being furry but my attitude is very “whatever” about it: basically I won’t deny it if I’m asked and I may casually drop that fact in conversation, and while I know that there’s misconceptions (some pretty nasty) I just think of it as their problem. Basically I really don’t care.
But one of my irl fur friends is the complete opposite, he’s very paranoid and closed off about anyone knowing, fearing how it may affect his reputation etc, he’s even hesitant about discussing furry topics in public, whereas I’m like “most people don’t know what FurAffinity is and if they do and have a problem with it I don’t care” but even my parents, who are tolerant about this hobby, think my friend’s totally right about being careful because people might get the wrong assumption, word may spread fast and all the sudden people near that social group don’t want to date me, even though my mindset is if they don’t like that part of me they’re not worth my time.
They insist that some things like that I should keep to myself, but they think being a furry is a kink (there’s def sexual aspects but it’s not the whole picture) and also I don’t have “Furry” on my business card or is the first thing I say to people I just met, but I’m also not hiding it at all costs like it’s a shameful secret because I’m just not ashamed by it.
Idk I’ve experienced my fair share of bullying, harassment and trauma growing up so I’ve learned to not care about all this, should I be rethinking my nonchalant behaviour?