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- im okay with going 24 hours without talking

- i dont like talking about my day, every single day

- i dont like scheduled conversations- convos at the same time every single day

- i dont usually get jealous when romantically involved; exception is if they follow a lot of ppl who are their type that they arent friends with

- it gives me the ick when someone says stuff like “so you hate me”when i dont have the energy or desire to talk in that moment

- i get the ick when someone hyperfixates on my height too much like always complimenting my height and constantly talking about it (im tall, once in a while is nice)

- being told someone cant live without me and if its not me its no one annoys me

- feeling like im responsible to make someone else feel secure in themselves

- not being allowed to come home late when out with friends

-not wanting to text when im spending time with friends or family, i dont like going on my phone when im having a conversation in real life (not on phone for hours)

-i prioritize my own needs like spending time alone, studying, working, self care before i make time to spend time with my partner

GREEN FLAGS

- i give a lot of compliments
- i ask a lot of random/specific questions
- i enjoy talking about existential stuff and the human mind/behaviour
-i create a folder in my notes app of what my person likes/dislikes, things i can buy/make for them
-im big on physical touch and gift giving
-idc if my partner goes through my phone
-i dont rly want to share locations and dont care to ask, but if my partner asks id share it

what to do w cats while im at work/school?

im 21, turning 22 next month. i live w my very strict traditional religious south asian family. im not allowed to have an opinion or speak my thoughts and have decided to move out. im being verbally abused, constantly criticized, constantly slut shamed (i barely leave the house, i dress very modestly).

im a server and a student completing my prerequisites for nursing school. i have made this decision to escape paying for rent and utilities while im a student.

i have everything i need but i have two precious kitties. i am a minimalist and plan on keeping everything in my trunk during the day to ensure my car stays spacious until its time to sleep.

theyre used to going on drives and i can put their litter box on the ground in the passenger seat. my only issue rn is just leaving them in the car while im at work/at school.

can anyone share their experiences? i havent moved out yet and i absolutely will not leave my cats behind. please share your advice if you have any in the comments below.

im a server in vancouver bc and i tip out 6% of my sales from my tips. i feel like the take home isnt as much as i thought it would be before i became a server, based on what i had been seeing online.

can anyone share their own experiences?

i saw someone else say they keep pictures and gifts from their ex to remember that time in their life.

i sold all of my exes stuff on depop/facebook marketplace and made a good chunk of money. to be fair they couldve had a good relationship with their ex while mine was absolutely horrible lol.

i have been a fan of the slushynoobz, mandy’s iphone, and claire drakes content for almost two years now. what i struggle to understand is why theres a loud minority within the community of people who seem to genuinely despise their content, but continue watching.

if you don’t like what they post and create, then simply stop watching them. hate watching doesn’t make sense to me. if you so clearly don’t like them then why would you continue to support? its like those people dont understand that their views inevitably pay these peoples bills LOL

i post all types of photos on pinterest— views, lifestyle, outfits, food.

for some reason pinterest wont let me post selfies? whenever i try to post a selfie, it doesnt show up on my account. the selfies i post arent even provocative. if anything my outfit posts are, and they always go up.

has anybody else experienced a similar issue? does anyone know why this is happening and how to fix this ??

why do so many lesbians/queer women get upset when their ex dates a man after they break up? i cant be the only one who just doesn’t care who my ex dates after me? like thats none of my concern idk

this is not in regards to being left for a man, but an ex dating a man after you two have been broken up.

edit: thank you all for your vulnerability when sharing your personal experiences! your responses definitely helped me understand where these feelings stem from.