u/ObviousLong8096

TLDR : My boyfriend has never finished from sex with me, what can I do and should I be worried ?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years. When we started dating we were in college and it was an intense relationship and very very sexual. We would have very passionate sex but he told me the first time we slept together during it that he has never finished from sex. This was very strange and new for me for a while .

We have sex and then he finishes himself. I felt down about it for a long time but then got used to it. Now we have been together 3 years and he still has never finished from me from sex . What does it mean? What about our future ?

I am an insurance broker . I graduated uni in 2025 and have been working for the past year in a brokers. I didn’t have any broker experience prior, just my degree. I was given a junior title which I assumed meant I was going to be given training and guidance.

Since joining I got little to no training and I organised a meeting with my manager in my first few months because I hadn’t heard from her and I was finding it difficult teaching myself everything (or using copilot) . I asked her for training she said she was working on it and it was “ coming “. Long story short it never came, I asked 2 more times for training and she gave similar responses and advised me to ask qs to my co workers.

I started to just give up and lose all ambition and motivation and didn’t really care anymore. My co workers have all worked in the company for 20+ years and they are negative and extremely judgemental - I am no stranger to working with people, namely women that are like this and have always got on fine but this workplace is different. The women openly criticise people on other teams in the office and openly share really uncomfortable opinions about other team members when they are not in. They are used to no repercussions. Me personally, I’m 24 and just trying to come to work do my job , chat to co workers and go home . I don’t care for the negatively about people and I see through them and think they are a bit miserable.

So I am lazy and not interested. I felt like they didn’t like me from my first day even tho I am polite and friendly and normal and they are just odd. I just started to not care about my work because I felt so miserable and on my own. I was doing work and getting things done properly but not feeling motivated and didn’t care about my targets

One of the targets I definitely didn’t reach and by a lot. I am really embarrassed, to be honest everything I do I try to do perfectly so this is a harsh wake up call for me. But i know it’s my fault and genuinely down to pure laziness, I knew the target was there and so didn’t even half reach it.

But what now? I don’t even know how to go about this.

Hi everyone,

My boyfriend is a huge manunited fan and has been to a couple of their games. I wanted to get him tickets for his birthday which is in September. I know Stretford End is the best spot especially for someone like him who loves the atmosphere and all.

I bought us tickets in today’s release for the match against Bournemouth (idk if this is a good match but the dates worked) but the only seats I could get were
NW3427
Row: 34 … Can somebody please help me out and tell me honestly if these are good seats for atmosphere and view. I will keep looking for better seats if they are not good.

Thanks so much