Inviting the person you are dating over when the kids are asleep?
When would it be too early in seeing someone to invite them over to your house to spend time when the kids are in bed? For some context: I am a single mum to a little boy with autism and a learning disability, he really doesn’t understand much. I have next to no support so I don’t get a lot of free time which makes dating hard. The dad is not in the picture and has no involvement so no days off.
I have been dating this guy for a few months and I do trust him a lot. My son always sleeps through the night so I have no worries that he’d wake up during the couple hours the guy is in the home and even if he did, my son wouldn’t even understand seeing a guy there tbh. I wouldn’t want him to spend the night either, it’s just to see each other for a couple hours at night as it’s hard to get time for me to go out and see him.
What are people’s thoughts?