u/Obvious_baddie

Man just two days ago, one of my med school classmates passed away from a sudden cardiac arrest. It really left me thinking… insaan kya kya plans bana kar betha hota hai aur ho kya jata hai, nobody knows. Five years of med school, years of hard work ahead, sleepless nights, dreams, ambitions… and then one day you’re gone.

We were not even close but still I can’t get over it. She was so ambitious and full of life🫠💔

Khair, what I’m trying to say is: Live in the moment. Do what genuinely makes you happy. Don’t carry hatred for anyone. Just try your best to treat people with kindness and move on peacefully✨

Don’t live your life under other people’s pressure. Enjoy what you have right now and live life to the fullest, Kya pta kal ho na ho🥀

Women are emotional?? Men are logical!!
Never saw a woman throw acid on someone's face out of emotions. Khair, not trying to start another gender war here. We get enough of those already.

After the horrific acid attack on Dr. Mahnoor, I realized that while people spend hours arguing online, very few of us actually know what to do if we ever witness an acid attack or become a victim ourselves (Allah na kry) but still🫠

As a doctor, I’d add some crucial points:

1. Water, water, water. The single most important thing is immediate, continuous irrigation with clean running water.

2. Remove contaminated clothing, jewelry, watches, etc.

3. Do NOT apply creams, toothpaste or home remedies.

4. Avoid trying to neutralize the acid with another chemical.

5. Seek emergency medical attention ASAP.

May Allah protect us all from ever having to face such a situation. Ameen🩵 but if it ever happens in front of us, knowing the right steps could make a huge difference.

I’ll start first💀:
We were at my nano ghr for the weekend, all the cousins hanging out in the drawing room. At first, my cousin and I were pretending I was giving her a haircut. But after a while I thought, this isn’t realistic enough (maza ni araa)🌚🤣

Now before anyone comes for me, I took her consent first😭 I asked, “Can I cut your hair?” and usny Mundi hilae🙂‍↕️ Big mistake (khair kaatnay mein toh main bachpan sy hi expert hoon)😝🔪

We locked the door, I grabbed a pair of scissors, and started cutting. My brother was using the shower, her brother was helping by combing her hair and for almost an hour there was complete silence💀

What we didn’t realize was that the fan was blowing all the cut hair under the door right into the hallway where my nana abu was sitting😭🤣

Bss phir “Hawww yeh kya kar diya??”💀

It was so bad that she eventually had to go TAKLI ganji churail bn gyee😭

Damn I still remember, Her mom (my mami) was staring at me full gussay sy but couldn’t really do much because I’m the certified ladla bacha of the fam😝🤣

And No I haven’t looked at myself in the mirror😭🙏🏻 yeah so just rn, I was walking on the terrace haseen mosam thandi hawa🍃✨

I saw a shadow on the wall at first I thought it was mine but it wasn’t. Then I stopped and it was moving super fast like yaha sy waha💀 and then it suddenly slowed down. And the weird part is there was NOTHING there that could’ve made that shadow, like genuinely nothing😭

Even my camera wasn’t picking it up. Now my head feels heavy and I’m getting dizzy😵‍💫
What are my chances of survival lmao?? ( I don’t wanna survive though💀) Khair, Ayat ul kursi and 4 Qul to the rescue😭🙏🏻

A reminder for anyone stressing lately, what’s written for you will find you no matter what. And what’s not meant for you, jo naseeb mein hi nahi hai na, no amount of forcing, crying or overthinking will make it stay.

And sometimes Allah removes things from our lives not to punish us, but to protect us from something that would’ve hurt us later.

The things written for you bring peace, not constant anxiety. Have tawakkul 🤍 make dua for yourself, keep trying and trust that whatever Allah has written for you will reach you at the right time and may Allah give everyone’s hearts peace, Ameen✨🌸

For me it’s being understood. Once Quinlan Walther said that people can really only meet you as deeply as they’ve met themselves, which means that some people simply don’t have the ability to understand you and that’s okay. I can’t relate more…