u/Odd-Standard-1925

Ive had pe since I started having sex, I’m M17 and noticed it 2 years ago with my ex. It got a little bit better after a while with her so i went from like 2 strokes to being able to last 30-60s which worked for me because i just edged and focused more on her. 2 days ago I was with this girl and we got intimate, when I was about to put it in and literally only got 2 strokes in before i felt I was about to come, I pulled out and said that I wanted to switch positions but then I just lost my erection. It was pretty embarrassing but I figured it was because I was low on energy+ that i was hungover. I really like this girl so I don’t wanna embarrass myself like that again. I did some research and it says that it could be because I have stiff hips, it could be other reasons as well but thats what I related to the most. I guess it could also be that I was a little bit nervous. We still text and stuff so it didn’t mess up our situationship. Anyways, I’m wondering if u guys have any suggestions on what to do, i’m looking for a fast temporary solution but also something that fixes it long term.

I have been texting with this girl for a while now and we have seen eachother with friends like 4 times. 2 days ago she invited me over to her place and I spent the night there. It went really well and I had really fun. After a while we decided to go to bed, we cuddled for a while and she let me touch her so I thought I might just go for the kiss, this is the weird part, she didn’t pull away or anything, she just didn’t commit to the kiss at all. After that i just forgot about it and we went to sleep. In the morning we stayed in bed for like 2 hours just talking, eventually things got more intimate (not sex) so I went for a kiss again because that’s what I’m used to do. But she did the same thing again, didn’t pull away, just 0 commitment. First I thought she could be uncomfortable, since I was touching her so I asked her if she’s okay, and she said she was fine. We continued a while but after that i just felt weird so I just stopped. Things didn’t get weird after all this so we still talk and text. But I just can’t figure out why she didn’t wanna kiss, my first idea was that I had a bad breath, but she didn’t have any problems with talking with me face to face ( our faces where like 10 cm away from eachother) for like 2 hours. Has anyone had a similar experience or know the reason why she won’t kiss me?

Im meeting a girl that i have been seeing for a while at her place now for the first time. I haven’t had sex for like a month so I don’t know if pe has gotten better or worse. Does anyone have any tips what to do before ans stuff like that?

If u have gotten pe from porn and just trying to climax as quick as possible, wouldn’t a good way to fix it be to edge to porn for like 15-20min because it rewires ur brain?

I have been taking ashwaganda (ksm 66) for about 2 weeks now and i have noticed a change. I feel like i last longer than usual, atleast when I’m masturbating. I haven’t had sex during the time I have been taking it tho but i feel like I have full control. I would recommend trying this, I have been taking 600-900mg every day. I have also noticed that it boosts ur libido by a lot, and i mean A LOT. For the last week i have been masturbating like twice a day, and i’m just wondering if this could actually worsen my pe. Anyways feel free ti ask questions and if somebody else has tried it lmk how it worked for u.

I have read a lot about training ur pelvic floor, but how do u actually do it? I have heard about kegels but dont really understand what they are. Can someone please explain kegels and give examples of good pelvic floor exercises.