GF (34) borrowed money to give to male friend. Did I overreact?
Girlfriend borrowed money to give to a male friend
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Girlfriend borrowed money to give to a male friend
I just got to know that my girlfriend (34F) borrowed money to give to her male friend who had kept pressuring her even though he knew she didn't have a job and relied on me for support. This has happened a couple of times and he's not showing any willingness to pay. She now wants to find money to pay off the loan herself. To be fair to her, I overheard her telling a friend that she wants to slowly cut him off since she feels he's using her as a cash cow.
When I brought it up and questioned her about what was between them that made her feel she owed it to him to do that, she got mad at me. The fact that she's mad that what has happened bothers me makes me even more upset. I don't have any reason to suspect infidelity but the whole thing has got me asking questions. We have had a long talk about this and she has asked him to pay back the money.
Was I wrong for asking if there was something going on between them?
Should I insist she cuts off ties with him?
Tldr: gf borrowed money to give to male friend and now wants to pay it back herself because make friends doesn't want to pay back