u/Ohisthisseattaken

In general, are there any non-white diasporas in these states or is it overwhelmingly Caucasian?

Are there any small towns in those states that have a decent digital nomad population and/or seasonal remote workers?

I am looking to work remotely at least some of the year while still hoping to build professional connections, while also being able to partake in my equestrian hobbies.

My top three dealbreakers are a man who is angry, a man who is abusive (of which there are many kinds), and a man who has addiction issues (which there are also many kinds).

My bottom three dealbreakers are a person who cheats/has a history of cheating, makes me feel like the mom, and sexual incompatibility. However, I believe these three issues could either be worked on and/or context matters (ex: cheated on high school girlfriend once is forgivable)

I know just finding a man that meets those standards is incredibly hard, so I will likely have to settle in some way. It would be nice to have similar education and career background, but I feel like that’s asking too much when I know my dealbreakers alone mean the pickings are slim. Ditto on finding someone with similar interests and just overall good chemistry.

Where do you stand on settling? Can a relationship that you “settle” work out, or is it just the start of resentment that will destroy it?

Understand it may not be authentic

I know she is has never marketed herself as a dancer, but I’m obsessed with her choreography in “Hot, Wet, Delirious”. It makes me think that there will be big group dance scenes for the tour that comes with this next album. Thoughts?