u/Ok-Back-8715

Hey guys. My husband and I have had issues related to sex and intimacy for the majority of our marriage due to many things he’s done and ways he’s treated me. He just admitted to me (which I kind of already had an idea) that he takes his frustration out on the kids when he feels he is not getting his sexual and intimacy needs met by me. I understand this is wrong in so many ways but I want to hear others’ thoughts, especially from men/husbands. Yes, we’ve been to marriage counseling multiple times over the last 5 years.

My husband (46) was raised by his Pentecostal grandparents. His religion went into overdrive about 3 years into our marriage. We now have two children (boy-8, girl-5). He demands that our daughter covers her head while she prays and that our son uncovers his head during prayer. I choose not to cover my head. Not out of rebellion, I just do not believe that the New Testament demands that. Anyway, he tells our children that my prayers are not heard by God because I don’t cover my head while I pray. I’m looking for guidance and perspectives from yall. Thanks!