Had sex for the first time
This is more of a discussion about a few different things I've experienced recently. After numerous failed relationships with allo people due to my sex repulsion, I am dating an allo person and we had/have sex regularly. HOWEVER I find it difficult to finish, or he always finishes before I'm close. He's also been asking me questions like "so are you not asexual anymore", honestly I'm quite confused. I still identify with the asexual label but I'm struggling to find the right words to explain it to him. Also, thinking about sex is disgusting, and I get turned off when he speaks during sex (I'm aegosexual).