u/Ok-Elephant-1458

Tired all the time.

Its a long rant.. sorry.

Growing up i was pushed into situations where I grew up faster than most. I felt like I was ready for adult hood because:

- I took care of myself, my siblings and my cousins at the age of 8.

- I was always alone to deal with stuff

- I learned how to be independent at a young age.

I couldn't wait to be an adult because I thought nothing would change except id get more respect from people.

I get up at 4am to put my laundry in the dryer. Then at 5:30 I put the away. Then breakfast, meal prep for dinner, and travel to school. School ends at 2. I have to leave early to get to work at 1:50. Then its work from 1:50 to anywhere between 8pm-12am. Then I get home, heat up and my dinner, do the dishes, tidy up, then sleep just to do it all again the next day

The worst part is that im killing myself and there's not a single thing in my schedule I can cut out because its all necessary.

School for education

Work for money for bills

House chores to live

The only time I get to myself is the bus rides in-between where I can out on music and just be dead to the world

Im so tired, all the time. Emotionally and physically. If I take my meds, I feel numb. But if I dont.. its the dark thoughts. There's no in between.

And I know "welcome to adulthood". Ive heard it before, and I'll probably hear it 1000 more times.

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u/Ok-Elephant-1458 — 12 hours ago
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Talking with my boyfriends fiancé! 💔

Guess what people! Ive been talking for 3 hours with my boyfriends FIANCÉ.

Yeah.

She messaged me off his account. Told me everything. I feel so foolish. I feel so gross. So used. And so stupid.

He knew it all. Every wound still healing. Every scar that still shows. Every dream and ambition.

We planned a future. A future that wasn't ours to plan.

I dont know what hurts more.

That he lied. Or that he knew it all and knew what the lies meant to me and chose to do it anyway.

Did he never care and I was just a game? Or did he truly care and chose to hurt me anyway.

Everything was a lie. She sent me screenshots. Things he said to me copy and pasted to other woman.

And I'll never get to ask 'why me'. Why a girl you watched survive an abusive relationship, a girl you knew every wound. Every scar. Every name im afraid to speak aloud. Why pick her, and break her down even more.

I hope his fiancé and kids are fine and aren't affected too much by this. They dont deserve that.

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u/Ok-Elephant-1458 — 26 days ago

I need help with ibis lineart

I dont know how to clip it or whatever I need to do to make the rough lines change into the color underneath it, if that makes sense

u/Ok-Elephant-1458 — 28 days ago

I need possible wig and body paint tips!

Im going to anime north on Saturday this WEEKEND and I have no clue how to pin or style this heavy jinx wig. I cant unbraid it to clean it up cause its handmade by someone else. I got it off Facebook so.

And I have no clue where I can get good lasting body paint in time for this event

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u/Ok-Elephant-1458 — 2 months ago