24 trying to help my wife be a SAHM
My wife (23F) and I (24M) are trying to plan for our future and I'd like some outside perspectives.
Our long-term goal is for her to become a stay-at-home mom when we have kids, which we're planning on in about 6 years.
Current situation:
- Combined income: $125,000/year
- Me: $75,000
- Wife: $50,000
- No debt
- No car payments
- Rent: $1,500/month
- Total living expenses: about $3,000/month
- We invest roughly $4,000-$5,000/month into a taxable brokerage account
- $200/month into a Roth IRA
- I also have a pension through my job
Current investments:
- Taxable brokerage: $80,000
- Roth IRA: $12,000
- Pension balance: $6,000 (still early in career)
Brokerage holdings are primarily:
- VOO
- SCHD
- QQQM
- JEPI
We'd also like to buy a house around the $400,000 range sometime before or during this transition.
The dream is eventually to replace most or all of my wife's income with investment income so she can stay home with our future children without us constantly worrying about money.
My biggest concern is whether we're being realistic. We save aggressively now, but I constantly worry that we'll get to that point and discover we don't have enough.
For people who have made a similar transition:
- What would you do differently?
- Are we on track?
- Should we focus more on growth now and worry about dividends later?
- How would you balance saving for a house versus building investments?
Any advice is appreciated.