u/Ok-Oven-918

(apologies if this type of post isn’t allowed, I’ll remove!!) hi I wasn’t sure which subreddit to ask this question in but since it’s about socks I guess this is the best bet.
basically I have fat ankles, borderline cankles but I don’t like calling them that because I’m only 20.. I’ve tried compression socks but the pressure is mostly in the calves when I need tightness right on my ankles. also when I try to where high ankle/low calf socks the ends are tighter so it cause “ballooning” :( BASICALLY I’m looking for cute mid crew to crew socks that are tight on the ankles but looser towards the calves (preferably cuter or frilly ones) any suggestions?

I took A&P I/II in my sophomore of highschool but I’m afraid the credits would expire by the time I’m able to apply for the radiology program next year. So I’m looking to do an online course for the prerequisite credit, would they accept it? Or is it in person courses only.

like title says my(20f) bf(20m) of two years isn’t supportive of my future decisions.

this basically started at the beginning of the relationship, in senior year of hs I was in a college emt class though my school (which I worked hard to get into) and i got with my bf the winter of that year (beginning of 2nd semester). Off the bat he was pretty codependent I guess, he would make me being away from him very difficult. (I should add he moved in with me and my dad around the 2 month mark because he had a difficult home life) i had to do some 12hr shadowing at hospitals and ambulances. he hated that and was super against me actually becoming a emt. I told him I wanted to go to college to be a radiologist but he was always against me working at a hospital/going to college altogether. Because I would be away and because he didn’t know what to do/didn’t know if he could go to college as well. We ALWAYS had to be together and work together and do everything together (it’s kinda still like that nowadays).

Well I held off on schooling for a while to give him more time(and to save money.. which never happened). We got into a few arguments about me going to school, as it’s something I’ve always wanted to do, I even changed my mind and would go to an online school for something else.

After a big fight he eventually told me he didn’t want me to go because he was afraid I would cheat on him. I was baffled because it felt like he didn’t even know me, and to have my whole future decided on that was crazy. We actually settled it and I told him I wouldn’t go to college (at least for a while)

WELL flash back to recently, we go to his brothers house and he tells him out of the blue that he wanted to be a car tech. I said “thank goodness now I can go to college too” and he got annoyed. There was some back and forth here and there. His brother told me to follow my dreams, while my bf got more mad I was talking about going to college and said to drop the topic. After we get in the car he said it wasn’t cool to talk about that specific subject and wanted me to apologize for making it seem like he’s the reason I couldn’t go to school.

The whole thing made me sad. Why is it that my bfs brother is more supportive of me and my dreams than my own bf? Why did I forget and throw my dreams in the first place? It feels wrong to talk about it again since we already settled the situation before hand. Idk what to do.

TDLR: bf isn’t supportive of me going to college, even though I want to