I’ve noticed a recurring pattern in MBTI discussions where ENTPs (including myself) seem to be particularly drawn to INFJs, while INTJs—despite also being a commonly mentioned match—don’t seem to get quite the same level of attention. I wouldn’t have expected ENTPs as a whole to be so drawn to a feeling type. I would’ve assumed most would prefer the most logical person possible, like an INTJ.
Intp, istj, and esfj are neither cute nor intimidating.
When I’m interested in someone I noticed that I have a tendency to get obsessed with everything about them and start stalking them on social media (not in a creepy way, just trying to see more of them because I find them interesting). They start occupying so much space in my mind and I even start fantasising about scenarios that include them. Does this happen to any other INTJs?
I don’t know who put xSFJs there, but he clearly hates us and want us to suffer. I genuinely can’t think of anything worse than being with a sensor. xSFJ’s in particular literally can’t handle deep conversations and this is probably my most important requirement in a relationship after loyalty.
I’ve met enough xSFJs to know that even slightly deep, abstract, or genuinely introspective conversations are not their strong suit. You can start talking about psychology, philosophy, existential questions, human nature, or some complicated idea, and they’ll give you that weird look like you’re speaking another language and steer the conversation back toward social drama, what someone wore, gossip, who said what, or some completely irrelevant everyday topic. They are also very shallow.
I’d genuinely rather die alone than spend my life with a sensor.
No offense to any sensors lurking here.
Fi being on the third place is simply too high. I despise having an emotional sensitive side because it’s holding me back. Also I don’t see the point of being soft deep down when you’re seen as cold and arrogant by everyone anyway like what’s the point of Fi even?