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xNTP, xSFJ, xNFP are an INTJ’s best matches

I don’t know who put xSFJs there, but he clearly hates us and want us to suffer. I genuinely can’t think of anything worse than being with a sensor. xSFJ’s in particular literally can’t handle deep conversations and this is probably my most important requirement in a relationship after loyalty.

I’ve met enough xSFJs to know that even slightly deep, abstract, or genuinely introspective conversations are not their strong suit. You can start talking about psychology, philosophy, existential questions, human nature, or some complicated idea, and they’ll give you that weird look like you’re speaking another language and steer the conversation back toward social drama, what someone wore, gossip, who said what, or some completely irrelevant everyday topic. They are also very shallow.

I’d genuinely rather die alone than spend my life with a sensor.

No offense to any sensors lurking here.

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u/Ok-Prize3273 — 1 day ago
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Is it possible to get rid of our Fi or move it lower down our function stacks?

Fi being on the third place is simply too high. I despise having an emotional sensitive side because it’s holding me back. Also I don’t see the point of being soft deep down when you’re seen as cold and arrogant by everyone anyway like what’s the point of Fi even?

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u/Ok-Prize3273 — 1 day ago