u/Ok-Stress7340

Hi everybody!

So I‘ve been having so trouble with my hair.

I usually blow dry my hair so they look like in the second picture because I have very thin hair and an oily scalp.
But when my hair does get a bit wet like from the rain it looks like in the first picture.

My problem is I can’t let my hair air dry after taking a shower because it just looks all over the place between straight and wavy and I don’t really know how to style it either.

So clearly there is a little bit of movement in the hair but I don’t really know what to do with it.

Which products should I use?
How do I style them after washing?
Etc.

Maybe some of you could help me:)