u/Ok-Telephone-2011

UPDATE: Found him!! thank you all so much for your help! A comment has his Etsy link if you want to check out his work!! Very gorgeous pieces :)

I bought an amazing necklace like 4 years ago from a local jeweler named Joshua. he was doing a pop up at Old Soul Exchange right after they opened. I’ve gone back to ask about him but they said they don’t keep track of their vendors and couldn’t help me (It was also so long ago so i totally get that). I also lost his card and recently lost my necklace from him. the pendant is from Italy and can’t be re-made, so I need to specifically find him. He said it’s a business he has with his mom and I’ve tried everything to find him over the last 6months and can’t find him anywhere. does this necklace look familiar to anyone or can they recommend people to check out?

I know it’s a bit silly but I won’t be able to recover my necklace at this point because I’ve moved and holds so much sentimental value now that I want to try to replace it.

please and thank you SO much!

I, 28f, have been dating my partner, 31m, for about a year. I didnt realize this when we first started dating, and I’ve had several very kind and patient conversations with him about his oral hygiene. probably 3-4ish times in the last 6months. I never want to embarrass him or make him feel shamed, but he hasn’t made huge progress and I can tell he skips brushing his teeth when I’m not around. He’s also had goals of taking better care of himself that he brought up before when it comes to brushing, gym, diet, etc. He’s done better with a lot of things like vitamins, diet and such. But he works such long hours, and up until recently 7days a week. I know he’s exhausted and doing his best. he is an amazing partner. I truly can’t speak highly enough about him in any other regard. He’s kind, compassionate, funny, makes me truly feel seen, and is the only man I’ve been with who I can truly see being a co-parent with- and before I met him I’d made peace with not having kids if I didn’t have a partner like him. We have the opportunity to move in together in about a month. i love him so so much and am so excited to move in with him, but am scared of signing a year long lease if he won’t take care of himself. And if it takes a bigger toll on our intimacy. I don’t want to give him an ultimatum but it’s nearing that territory since we’ve already talked about how much this matters to me. Also posting anonymously bc I don’t want any friends or relatives to see, I haven’t event talked about this with anyone bc I don’t want anyone in our circle to be rude. How could I kindly go about this?

Pls help me find this local jeweler!!