u/OkCupcake1211

May nag message sa TG account ni BF saying "Good morning", pumasok yung message ng 4PM this afternoon. The moment na sinabi ko sa kanya na may nag message sa'yo, and pina kita ko (nag pop up yung message/notif sa PC niya while I was working on his desk) sabi niya, baka scammer lang at dali dali niyang binlock at dinelete ang message.

Please give me insights. May mga ganitong "scam" ba talaga sa TG? hidden yung phone number and it seems like new ang account. Although, the full name was there. Hindi ko na makita yung message again dahil binura niya.

Problem/Goal: I felt disrespected when I found out na nag keep ng photo strip of her ex-gf ang boyfriend ko. I found this out 6 months in our relationship. I want to think this through. Baka mali lang iniisip ko, o baka it's just there for the memory or something. That's why, I confronted him after a month ko malaman.

After ko siya i-confront about it, he told me the reason why he kept it because wala naman daw bad blood sa kanila ng ex-gf niya and kept it for the memories. I cried so hard infront of him kasi, just when I thought i-comfort niya'ko, nag offer siya makipag break.

Fast forward to today. Naging okay kami, pero I think I no longer trust him. Yung simple photo na yun, tinago niya from me, ano pa kaya ang tinatago niya.

What do you guys think? Am I the a*hole here na mababa self esteem or may mali din talaga si BF?