u/OkFun1410

I’m a 5’9” girl, and honestly, in my entire life, I’ve rarely met a guy who is taller than me. Maybe one or two, but unfortunately, those situations never worked out relationship-wise. 😂
Most of the guys I’ve dated or met have been shorter than me. Even my ex was shorter than me.
Because of that, I slowly started feeling guilty about wearing heels. I’d think, “Oh God, I’m already tall… should I really wear heels?” 😭
And my ex would make it worse. Whenever I wore heels, he’d ask, “Why are you wearing heels? You just want attention, right? You want to look smarter or something?”
And I’d actually start questioning myself. Like… Am I doing something wrong just because I want to wear heels?
I’ve even been involved in modelling, so heels and fashion are a normal part of my life. But somehow, I started feeling like I needed to make myself smaller just to make someone else feel comfortable.
Now I’m thinking—why should I?
If I’m 5’9” and want to wear 4-inch heels, then I guess I’m 6’1” that day. 😂👠
Tall girls, do you also get comments like this when you wear heels?

I’m a 5’9” girl, and honestly, in my entire life, I’ve rarely met a guy who is taller than me. Maybe one or two, but unfortunately, those situations never worked out relationship-wise. 😂
Most of the guys I’ve dated or met have been shorter than me. Even my ex was shorter than me.
Because of that, I slowly started feeling guilty about wearing heels. I’d think, “Oh God, I’m already tall… should I really wear heels?” 😭
And my ex would make it worse. Whenever I wore heels, he’d ask, “Why are you wearing heels? You just want attention, right? You want to look smarter or something?”
And I’d actually start questioning myself. Like… Am I doing something wrong just because I want to wear heels?
I’ve even been involved in modelling, so heels and fashion are a normal part of my life. But somehow, I started feeling like I needed to make myself smaller just to make someone else feel comfortable.
Now I’m thinking—why should I?
If I’m 5’9” and want to wear 4-inch heels, then I guess I’m 6’1” that day. 😂👠
Tall girls, do you also get comments like this when you wear heels?

It’s been only 24 hours since I opened my Reddit account, and honestly, I’m just a girl who loves sharing her experiences, talking to people, and being social.
Back in 2019–2020, I started two or three YouTube channels. I would post videos, learn how to edit, make thumbnails, and figure everything out by myself. But somehow, after a month or two, something would happen and I would stop posting. The same thing happened with Instagram. I had a really good following and reached more than 5 million people, but because of my ex, I deleted all my social media.
Recently, one of my PG friends told me about Reddit. I thought, “Okay, maybe this is my time to start again.” So I decided to share my daily life, tell stories, express myself, and just post whatever I feel like sharing. I don’t want to overthink everything anymore. I genuinely enjoy connecting with people and sharing experiences.
But literally just now, my friend came into my room and told me, “You need to reply properly to people on Reddit. Don’t just reply with emojis because people might dislike it, and it can affect your karma.” 😂
And I was like… okay, NOW I understand! I’m still learning how Reddit works. 😭
I’ve tried different social media platforms before, and every time something happened that made me stop. But I don’t want to repeat that anymore. I’m hardworking, and I actually enjoy learning new things. Whenever I started something, I always learned along the way—editing, thumbnails, content creation, everything.
So if I make mistakes here, please understand that I’m learning. I’m just trying to connect with people, share my experiences, and create something positive.
I don’t know what the future of this account will be, but this time I really want to keep going. ❤️

I live in a PG, so I usually don’t cook lunch in the morning. One day, I was at the office and was really hungry, so I ordered way too much food for myself. 😂
I ate almost everything, but at the end, I had two pieces of dhokla left.
I didn’t want to throw them away.
I saw one of the cleaning staff at my office and asked if he would like them. It was such a small thing. I honestly didn’t think much about it.
But after that day, something changed.
He started looking out for me. He would help me with little things, check on me, and sometimes even pick me up from my PG when I needed help.
And it made me realise something really simple:
Sometimes people don’t need big things from us. A little food, a little respect, a little kindness… sometimes that’s enough to make someone feel seen.
Those two pieces of dhokla were probably worth almost nothing.
But the kindness that came back to me?
Priceless. ❤️

I recently moved to a new city and shifted into a PG. I came with only two suitcases because I was trying to keep things minimal — just some clothes, shoes, and the important stuff.
And somehow, within less than 15 days, one of my shirts and one of my crop tees disappeared. 😭
I still have no idea who took them.
So I ordered a few new clothes to replace them… and of course, the first shirt I ordered didn’t even fit me. 😂 Returned it.
After all that drama, this white shirt finally arrived — and it actually fits! And honestly, I love how professional it looks.
So yeah, this isn’t just a new shirt anymore.
This shirt has been through a journey. 😂
What do you think — does a simple white shirt give the perfect professional look, or is it too basic?