u/OkInvestment4753

So I have a wedding (well just after party) to go to on Sunday and my ac in my car just went out.Temps are hitting record highs where I live and a 40 minute drive would absolutely be dreadful with no air! She is a very close friend but didnt even have me apart of her wedding at all or even the ceremony so I was on the fence about going in the first place but I decided to just suck it up , but is this just my sign just not to go?or would it be rude and I should just go? (I’ve been friends with her for years and then she talked to me about a coworker being her bridesmaid and not me after one of them flaked😛)

So I found out recently that I am invited to my best friends reception but not her ceremony and I feel very salty about it. I didn’t even know I wasn’t invited because the invitation did not say that it was reception only. I found out because I was helping her deliver invitations to the people that live close to us (about 5-6, the rest were mailed) and she asked the first person if they had a extra piece of paper in the invitation that was for the ceremony. Then she proceeded to say that a couple people have been confused that they are only invited to the reception and said they “ can’t read” not knowing at the time that I was one of those people that apparently “can’t read”. I told her later that same day that I was one of those people that didn’t know they weren’t invited and all she said was “damn I wish I would have worded it better” and then never told me why she didn’t invite me.She also had the audacity to ask me to watch her house while she goes on her honeymoon and invited me to her bachelorette party! And she has done all of this all while saying I’m her bestfriend and the only person she hangs out with! Would I be the asshole to just not go to any of it?
Edit** I forgot some important information I apologize, it is not a really small ceremony, I don’t know who all is coming but it is more than just immediate family and she does have 3 bridesmaids. I have asked why but she never gave me a straight answer and just changes the subject because she doesn’t like awkward situations so she will do anything she can to avoid it. I am going to ask one more time but I just wanted opinions first because I don’t want to seem like a asshole